AShetlandBitMeOnce
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Apologies in advance for the essay!!
So most of you will probably know of Dex through my posts but I am having a bit of a moment with it all.. The last month or so he's had his back up, bronced a few times and been a bit spooky and testing me a bit more, but nothing remotely nasty or that would challenge a confident every day rider, but it is challenging me somewhat and he's gone from being a horse you'd put your granny on and could do anything with a smile on your face, to one that I am having to manage and adjust what I am asking because I am getting slightly nervous of what is coming, when he has his back up you can immediately and considerably feel it and it's really disconcerting. I have had this before for a week or so come coat change time but it's usually short lived, whereas this is ongoing.
It's honestly making me question everything and wonder just what to do. Is this just a moment, or is this the new him now he is 5.5yo and the kevins are setting in.
Pain? He had surgery for an OCD bone chip in his stifle in June easy surgery and no arthritis or cartilege damage apart from one crack that isn't that major, came back into full work from thatover 3 months, had the joint medicated 3 weeks ago now as it was slightly swollen but it's gone down completely and signed off sound, it's definitely not his usual pain reaction as when his saddle hurt he went stuffy and didn't want to move, not spooky and back up broncing. We x-rayed fetlocks, feet, hocks, other stifle and full spine/neck when he first went lame just to check and the vet said they are about the cleanest xrays he's ever seen. He also has monthly bodywork sessions and nothing of note there. Dentist came a month ago. Saddle Fitter a month ago. He has also had really wonderful lessons interspersed with dickhead behaviour, so it feels like it's mood related.
Overfed? He grazes from 7:30am till 4pm on fair grass and has 15kg of good quality hay overnight, he gets 1/3 stubbs scoop of Dengie happy hoof molasses free, a joint supplement, boswellia and I added valerian in when they swapped from night to day turnout about 7 weeks ago (that's when it feels like this all started). So nothing much for a 17.1hh 700kg animal really.
Turn away for winter? Problem with this is I love my yard and I would lose the space, as I cannot afford to pay for two places. Spaces rarely come up and I don't know another yard anywhere near here that I would want to be, literal hens teeth livery space. Plus this may be pushing the issue down the road, and he'd lose even more muscle.
I don't want to give up on him too soon, but I make considerable sacrifices to keep him now I have the house to pay for, and I am just not feeling any joy from it and other than after the odd good lesson I haven't since he had his surgery really - he was going so well then too. I don't have the money to have him pro schooled, and if this is just his adult attitude that wouldn't fix it anyway.
I don't think he's saleable due to the surgery, and do I want to sell him? He's brilliant usually in every other way. Good to clip, bathe, dentist, handle, travels well, behaves fab away from home, groundwork is brilliant, does great liberty work, great to hack would nanny youngsters, first or last, hold gates, not arsed about dogs, cows, tractors, traffic or otherwise. Easy to turnout with others, respects fencing, tidy in the stable and a super nice person to be around. No vices at all.
But I also don't think he's really loanable due to the time of year.
WWYD?!
So most of you will probably know of Dex through my posts but I am having a bit of a moment with it all.. The last month or so he's had his back up, bronced a few times and been a bit spooky and testing me a bit more, but nothing remotely nasty or that would challenge a confident every day rider, but it is challenging me somewhat and he's gone from being a horse you'd put your granny on and could do anything with a smile on your face, to one that I am having to manage and adjust what I am asking because I am getting slightly nervous of what is coming, when he has his back up you can immediately and considerably feel it and it's really disconcerting. I have had this before for a week or so come coat change time but it's usually short lived, whereas this is ongoing.
It's honestly making me question everything and wonder just what to do. Is this just a moment, or is this the new him now he is 5.5yo and the kevins are setting in.
Pain? He had surgery for an OCD bone chip in his stifle in June easy surgery and no arthritis or cartilege damage apart from one crack that isn't that major, came back into full work from thatover 3 months, had the joint medicated 3 weeks ago now as it was slightly swollen but it's gone down completely and signed off sound, it's definitely not his usual pain reaction as when his saddle hurt he went stuffy and didn't want to move, not spooky and back up broncing. We x-rayed fetlocks, feet, hocks, other stifle and full spine/neck when he first went lame just to check and the vet said they are about the cleanest xrays he's ever seen. He also has monthly bodywork sessions and nothing of note there. Dentist came a month ago. Saddle Fitter a month ago. He has also had really wonderful lessons interspersed with dickhead behaviour, so it feels like it's mood related.
Overfed? He grazes from 7:30am till 4pm on fair grass and has 15kg of good quality hay overnight, he gets 1/3 stubbs scoop of Dengie happy hoof molasses free, a joint supplement, boswellia and I added valerian in when they swapped from night to day turnout about 7 weeks ago (that's when it feels like this all started). So nothing much for a 17.1hh 700kg animal really.
Turn away for winter? Problem with this is I love my yard and I would lose the space, as I cannot afford to pay for two places. Spaces rarely come up and I don't know another yard anywhere near here that I would want to be, literal hens teeth livery space. Plus this may be pushing the issue down the road, and he'd lose even more muscle.
I don't want to give up on him too soon, but I make considerable sacrifices to keep him now I have the house to pay for, and I am just not feeling any joy from it and other than after the odd good lesson I haven't since he had his surgery really - he was going so well then too. I don't have the money to have him pro schooled, and if this is just his adult attitude that wouldn't fix it anyway.
I don't think he's saleable due to the surgery, and do I want to sell him? He's brilliant usually in every other way. Good to clip, bathe, dentist, handle, travels well, behaves fab away from home, groundwork is brilliant, does great liberty work, great to hack would nanny youngsters, first or last, hold gates, not arsed about dogs, cows, tractors, traffic or otherwise. Easy to turnout with others, respects fencing, tidy in the stable and a super nice person to be around. No vices at all.
But I also don't think he's really loanable due to the time of year.
WWYD?!