muff747
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Need to know what everyone else thinks about this; Blueberry muffins and hot chocolate if you get to the end!
We are on a small DIY yard where there is no manager so me being the oldest and recently retired seems to have been delegated to lead some of the actions we need to take.
The owner is a widowed lady maybe a couple of years away from pension age but meanwhile works full time. Her late husband built the stables, despite both of them being totally non horsey but they saw renting out the yard as an income. She is a very nice, unassuming maybe a little timid lady who lets us do as we want so long as everyone is happy - that's all she wants.
Over the last few months we have lost four liveries and no one suitable was coming forward to take up the empty stables. We decided to help her out as she was losing a lot of income and we want to keep her happy so she'll stay on in that big house alone. Her only stipulation was no kids so she asked us to vet the prospective liveries as we would be the ones who would need to get along with new people.
Sorry.... trying to give you a clear picture.
The fourteen year old was brought in early this year to share a horse, owner is a man and has ended up giving nearly all the decision making to her because she is getting a little bit over confident and throwing her weight about, backed up by one of the original liveries. She has decided that the only place left to rent out, (which is in her paddock) is not going to happen, and she was challenging me the other day about this but I tried to fend her off by saying it wasn't my decision.
I had reminded her when she decided to swap into an empty paddock that it always was a two horse section and again when we had recently rented out three of the other empty spaces, but now the two of them have convinced the owner that they do not want anyone else on the yard. So she has said she doesn't want any falling out so has allowed her to have her own way.
She will be losing quite a lot of monthly income and if it was me, I wouldn't feel comfortable depriving her of this money, just because I didn't want anyone in the same paddock as me.
Please, someone help me come to terms with this or am I right to be angry?
Congratulations if you got to here!!
We are on a small DIY yard where there is no manager so me being the oldest and recently retired seems to have been delegated to lead some of the actions we need to take.
The owner is a widowed lady maybe a couple of years away from pension age but meanwhile works full time. Her late husband built the stables, despite both of them being totally non horsey but they saw renting out the yard as an income. She is a very nice, unassuming maybe a little timid lady who lets us do as we want so long as everyone is happy - that's all she wants.
Over the last few months we have lost four liveries and no one suitable was coming forward to take up the empty stables. We decided to help her out as she was losing a lot of income and we want to keep her happy so she'll stay on in that big house alone. Her only stipulation was no kids so she asked us to vet the prospective liveries as we would be the ones who would need to get along with new people.
Sorry.... trying to give you a clear picture.
The fourteen year old was brought in early this year to share a horse, owner is a man and has ended up giving nearly all the decision making to her because she is getting a little bit over confident and throwing her weight about, backed up by one of the original liveries. She has decided that the only place left to rent out, (which is in her paddock) is not going to happen, and she was challenging me the other day about this but I tried to fend her off by saying it wasn't my decision.
I had reminded her when she decided to swap into an empty paddock that it always was a two horse section and again when we had recently rented out three of the other empty spaces, but now the two of them have convinced the owner that they do not want anyone else on the yard. So she has said she doesn't want any falling out so has allowed her to have her own way.
She will be losing quite a lot of monthly income and if it was me, I wouldn't feel comfortable depriving her of this money, just because I didn't want anyone in the same paddock as me.
Please, someone help me come to terms with this or am I right to be angry?
Congratulations if you got to here!!