Yard drama ,need some help!

[ester]

see previous points. I did this as a teen, and the OP has confirmed my understanding was correct. All you are doing is guaranteeing yourself 2/3 rides on the same horse every week. If you don't pay you don't get your rides, often no contract. We seem to have got unnecessarily hung up on contracts and insurance.

 

[Lois Lame]

(sorry still getting used to H&H layout idk why it wants me to reply twice)

she does have her own issues but i wouldn’t call her a snake that’s quite harsh, she’s just a kid who’s still learning but unfortunately she causes a lot of drama around the yard and that pits a LOT of people against each other sadly. But I’m hoping within time she’ll grow to be a better person, for her own sake . I don’t hate her , but she needs to learn .

Honestly I’m not sure if the yard owner saying yes to her is true or not or if she’s saying to wind me up , she has a history of lying to upset people (another way she has hurt me in the past)

I get the feeling your 'friend' wants the horse because you want/wanted the horse.

 

[Lois Lame]

I could theoretically, but I have an established friend group and would prefer to loan at current yard. I don’t know of any horses suitable for me currently around down here . I’m 5,9 ish, (actually currently not sure what I weigh , but I need to diet a little to loose tummy fat ) so would probably want something 16 h+ . There seems to be a lack of sane 16h’s around me also especially to move yards, which is what I’d want to do due to timing .

No no, don't mistake having to diet due to a bit of a 'tummy'. I always thought the same even though my mother would tell me that all I needed was to exercise that area. Of course I didn't believe a word of it.

Excercise your core muscles.