noblesteed
Well-Known Member
Why do people take it personally when you move yards? Why does it cause so much tension? Why does it always involve falling out and making enemies?
Honestly it's far worse than changing jobs - people can't just accept you are moving on for your own reasons whatever they may be... I have moved today after 3 years at the same place - which was lovely, but wasn't convenient any more since I had my baby and became a working mum... So now it seems the people I thought were friends are actually not... It always seems to happen though, every yard you are at - as soon as you leave you become the enemy!!!!
I just don't get it!!!! If you get a new job, people are pleased for you and wish you luck! If you move house they wish you well! But when you move yards people say they 'hope you don't ruin your horse', 'hope you can handle him all by yourself without OUR help' and roll their eyes behind your back... Then make you feel guilty for leaving them with an empty stable...
Sorry. Rant over.
Honestly it's far worse than changing jobs - people can't just accept you are moving on for your own reasons whatever they may be... I have moved today after 3 years at the same place - which was lovely, but wasn't convenient any more since I had my baby and became a working mum... So now it seems the people I thought were friends are actually not... It always seems to happen though, every yard you are at - as soon as you leave you become the enemy!!!!
I just don't get it!!!! If you get a new job, people are pleased for you and wish you luck! If you move house they wish you well! But when you move yards people say they 'hope you don't ruin your horse', 'hope you can handle him all by yourself without OUR help' and roll their eyes behind your back... Then make you feel guilty for leaving them with an empty stable...
Sorry. Rant over.