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YO's are away on a mini break so I gets talking to their son who is a really nice lad (6yrs my jnr!) and before you know it we've totally hit it off and even kissed last night....

Problem is I'm in a relationship which is pretty stale, have a child and a small dog and other grown up responsiblities! But I get butterflys and feel like a school kid again when ever I hear from this guy!

We've kept it quiet as I cant be bothered with yard gossip but I will be going out with him this weekend as he leaves for canada next week where he'll be working for 6 months.......

So confused :( I need someone to slap me back to realality I think :confused:

This is a genuine post btw just in a different name to keep me annonomuse (sp)
 
here's your slap

GROW UP!

You've got a kid and a relationship and the YO's son is disappearing off to Canada. Just don't even think of going out with him this weekend and try to sort out the relationship you've got.
 
help me said:
YO's are away on a mini break so I gets talking to their son who is a really nice lad (6yrs my jnr!) and before you know it we've totally hit it off and even kissed last night....

Problem is I'm in a relationship which is pretty stale, have a child and a small dog and other grown up responsiblities! But I get butterflys and feel like a school kid again when ever I hear from this guy!

We've kept it quiet as I cant be bothered with yard gossip but I will be going out with him this weekend as he leaves for canada next week where he'll be working for 6 months.......

So confused :( I need someone to slap me back to realality I think :confused:

This is a genuine post btw just in a different name to keep me annonomuse (sp)
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Keep away .... simple it will hurt you and your family its not worth it .......
 
Fancying the socks (?) off someone is all part and parcel of life. You have to be adult enough to realise that you are in lust and not in love!

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jemima_too said:
here's your slap

GROW UP!

You've got a kid and a relationship and the YO's son is disappearing off to Canada. Just don't even think of going out with him this weekend and try to sort out the relationship you've got.
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This ^^

If your relationship has gone stale do something about it as if this gets back to your partner you may well find you don't have a relationship any more.

Its easy enough for YO's son after all he's off to Canada for 6 months and having a bit of a fling before he goes but you are the one who will have to face the music
 
Finish the relationship your in if it's not working out...for what ever reasons they are before you dabble with anyone else.

Yes it's nice to have some attention and a bit of fun from younger guy, but it's not like your 16 (well, I presume not lol) and it's not like your going to get anything out of it apart from being used, it's not really the way to carry on when you have a home, a child and a partner at home, could all end in tears and it's really not worth any risks, people getting hurt or you having to move your horses to a different yard.
 
Not a slap - but a shake to say take care. As the others say, he is off shortly and there will be no impact for him whatsoever if this gets out - its his parents yards, hes single, hes a bloke - in fact, he will look good. You, however will not. I would strongly suspect that because you have a gap in your life and a poor relationship you are looking for a new partner so take this as your subconscious telling you you need to get out or sort out your existing relationship before it is done for you (and not in a way you want)

It is logical - small child, so tired, stale relationship and here is a nice looking guy giving you attention so who wouldn't enjoy/be flattered but try to take this as a wake up call that you need to get control back over your life. If you are tempted, just try to visualise how you would feel if this became public? that should restrain you!
 
Hello Cynical Sam here...

Soooo young good looking boy gives you attention, has a bit of a smooch behind the stable block (so to speak) and here's you all giddy and joyful at the attention. Quiet rightly wanting to keep the yard gossip all quiet and unknowing....so lets just ask ourselves how many of the other 'older' ladies on the yard have experienced the same attention from this good looking boy and also kept quiet?

Go home speak to your OH and try to sort out your problems...for the sake of your child.

Put it down to a bit of fun and leave it where it deserves to be...in the muck heap. ;)
 
it takes two to tango, so take the tango back to the stale partnership.... take the incentive and spice it up a bit.

You have had the reminder that you are attractive, so go and put it to some good use where it will be appreciated, rather than just being another notch. As others say you have far more to loose than the YO son.
 
get a grip woman!! he is off to canada soon...you have a kid...and a oh who probably doesn't realise you think the relationship is stale...go back to your oh!! x
 
You owe it to your OH to either end it with him if your relationship really is that stale, or to work at sorting things out.
You've proved to yourself you've 'still got it' - which I understand is important to those of us in long-term relationships. But now it's time to leave the teenager behind and become the adult again.
A lot of people could end up getting hurt by your actions. Probably not you so much. Most likely not YO's son. Definitely your child and OH. Think of them and do the right thing.
 
Rather a large slap and grow up.:mad::mad:He's having a bit of tottie on the side and you are stupid enough to fall for it:mad::mad:.
What happens if your little fumble about gets to the ears of your OH and he decided that you are an unfit mother, then what. Every relationship tend to go through bad patches, either try and work through it with him or have a really good talk. Maybe he's as bored with you as you are with him.
 
No nice person cheats.
No one nice wants another person's partner.
No one responsible is reckless with their horse's livery.
And, more than anything, no responsible person messes around when there is a child involved.

Not all relationships can succeed but none should be degraded or end through unfaithfulness.

Get a conscience, get some sense, and maybe a relationship counselor!
 
SLAP.

Now get a grip of yourself.

Seperate the two. If your relationship isnt going to work, leave it.

But as for YO son, he is after a shag...end of.
 
Don' t be so bloody selfish - how would you like it if you found out your kid's dad was messing around behind your back.

Its not nice, clever or "fun" - sort out the relationship you are currently in before moving on to new pastures.

Also, do you seriously think the YO son is going to look after another man's kid - get a grip.
 
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