J&C
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I have a 4 year old who is normally very good to hack out, pretty bombproof and generally loves going out for a wander, having a good blast etc.
Today I took him down a different route that we have only been down once (and only half way). I don't really like this route as it's mainly road work but it is the only way we can go for a long hack. He was really forward going to start with but we got to a field where there was a rugby match going on and he just wasn't sure what all those men running around shouting were doing! I stopped and let him have a good look for a minute. When I asked him to walk on again he just planted and wouldn't move. He kept trying to turn around to go back home.
I asked him to move forwards, using leg aids, voice aids and the second he moved a step forward he would get praised. He would only move forward a step at a time, mainly not moving at all and occasionally trying to turn around.
We ended up being there for ages, just doing a few steps forward then stopping again but eventually got past and after that he was good as gold again. By that point it was starting to get dark so I wanted to turn around and head back but I didn't want to turn around straight after so picked a point I could see a little further on, rode up to it then turned around and went back.
Now I know he is just a youngster and I want to nip this in the bud before he thinks he can do this again. So my question is, what should I have done differently in this situation and what should I do if he does it again?
When I got back I told someone what happened and they said I should of just got off and lead him past as it would of been quicker, but my thinking was he wasn't really scared he was just trying it on and if I'd got off I know he would of walked past but I was wanting to RIDE him past.
Today I took him down a different route that we have only been down once (and only half way). I don't really like this route as it's mainly road work but it is the only way we can go for a long hack. He was really forward going to start with but we got to a field where there was a rugby match going on and he just wasn't sure what all those men running around shouting were doing! I stopped and let him have a good look for a minute. When I asked him to walk on again he just planted and wouldn't move. He kept trying to turn around to go back home.
I asked him to move forwards, using leg aids, voice aids and the second he moved a step forward he would get praised. He would only move forward a step at a time, mainly not moving at all and occasionally trying to turn around.
We ended up being there for ages, just doing a few steps forward then stopping again but eventually got past and after that he was good as gold again. By that point it was starting to get dark so I wanted to turn around and head back but I didn't want to turn around straight after so picked a point I could see a little further on, rode up to it then turned around and went back.
Now I know he is just a youngster and I want to nip this in the bud before he thinks he can do this again. So my question is, what should I have done differently in this situation and what should I do if he does it again?
When I got back I told someone what happened and they said I should of just got off and lead him past as it would of been quicker, but my thinking was he wasn't really scared he was just trying it on and if I'd got off I know he would of walked past but I was wanting to RIDE him past.