Your horse and other people...

tasel

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I am going to have dinner with friends tonight, so unhorsey OH opted to do horsey himself... but then it transpires that he may just feed and water her... not muck her out (which would mean he'd have to take her out of the stable and either stick her in a T/O area or just put her somewhere with a haynet - that's normally my job). Since horsey normally gets a spring clean every single day, I believe in this case, it will be ok.

The reason for his reluctance to take her out of the stable is because he's afraid of said horse... and whilst we may all laugh about it first, after thinking about it, he actually has grounds to believe that. Big bad horsey has sent two grooms into A&E within the last 2 years!!! She kicked one in the face, resulting in chipped tooth and bruises, and broke another one's finger - at two completely different yards!!!

And yes, she is a difficult horse, but I handle her almost daily since I got her, had to endure rearing whilst hand walking whilst she was on boxrest and - touch wood - it has never come to that point. I never saw the first incident, but apparently, that happened when she kicked out whilst hoof picking. I don't know how anyone else does it, but I've been taught from a young age that there is always a danger that a horse can kick out, so there is no way may face would even be in the line of trajectory when I pick her hooves, but I saw others who do it that way, and I almost cringe just watching. The other time, when someone else's finger was broken, I just managed to catch a glimpse of it (I just arrived on the yard). Horsey barged into her stable - something she doesn't normally do. In fact, I often make her wait outside her stable for a good few seconds, and enter the stable myself first... and then, she's only allowed to follow when I tell her to come in. But apparently, that's how my horse just is - as I've been told.

I am starting to wonder whether she acts completely different when she is with other people? Or is it more that I know her better, so I know how to handle her? I am completely dumb-founded as to why these accidents have happened. And as much as I would like to prevent things like that from happening again... if horsey behaves differently/faultless when I handle her on the ground, it's not like I can do much???

Do your horses behave differently with other people or am I just imagining this?
 
horses often feed off the 'vibes' of the person whose handling them, if your nervous, they are more likely to play up. Also, as you say, you've handled yours alot more than your OH so your horse knows how you work, and you know how your horse works.
 
Ha ha! Bless him:D.
My mare seems to know that my OH is not well(MS)and walks at his pace accordingly, in fact they often go for a little grazeing and a chat when they are sopposed to be coming in:rolleyes:. With me, she's good as gold although she can be a little impatient. With others that she likes(feed and fuss) she behaves well. If she doesn't like you though, you'll know it and not like her:mad:.
I guess we and they all have our little ways.
 
If others are looking after either of ours I tell them how best to handle them. Neither are in any way dangerous but the grey is dominant and will nip you to "move you on" if you let him dawdle behind you and don't pay attention. Personally I like to know how best to handle every horse I'm likely to help out with. Then we both know where we are!
 
Hmmm... I have offered OH a "catwalk session" of walking up and down the yard with horsey in tow, so that at least he can lead her. I call it "catwalk session" as horses on either side literally watch you. He declined. :D

Problem with OH is that even the dogs have him wrapped around their little paws!!! My pets' hierarchy seems to be as follows: 1. Mummy 2. Pets 3. OH!!!
 
It's a difficult one.
At the moment I'm being told that I don't need to be strict with my poor box rested girl (she had colic surgery), because 'she's so sweet and well behaved'.
Perhaps the reason she is sweet and well behaved is because I have been equally strict with her for the entire 5 years of her life? ;) :D
S :D
 
PS: OH has just sent an email about the recipe of my horse's feed :). She has been really picky recently and will make a fuss if it's not exactly how I usually make it!!! I don't know why she's been like that recently! She normally eats whatever...

Anyway, will be quite interested to see how it will work out.
 
Cappy is a nightmare for some people, an angel for others. I think that they often know who is a bit wary of them, also they have their preferences about the way people treat them. Hopefully your mare will understand that the regular servant has to have a day off now and then.:D
 
FanyDuChamp - don't even get me started... she treats us like she's in a hotel with room service sometimes. Puts out her haynet everytime it's empty!!!
 
My friend looks after my horse 2days a week and she is scared poopyless of him :P haha ... saying that he does try and eat her most of the time but it seems to be when she starts danceing and singing or shouting infront of him :/ hes not half as bad with me but thats because i work quietly around him which is what he likes :) She also tells everyone he kicks but he doesnt ... ive known him longer than her and ov spend more time with him so i no he doesnt kick cuz if he did id probably have lost a limb by now as i stand behind him all the time :P hehe i can even walk under his tummy lol
 
Oh just remembered ... one of my other friends looked after him twice and those two times he didnt eat his dinner for her :O and he eats for everyone else haha WEIRD :P
 
My boy is quite nervous with others, especially men. He will walk towards you with his ears flat back. When I first got him I thought 'my god he is gonna have me!' but if you just stand and carry on doing what you were going to do he is fine. He would actually dream of biting or kicking. Men are a different matter. My other half can just about feed him polos, but I was leading him to the field the other day and there was a chap on the yard. He was about 10 meters from my horse but horses ears went flat back and he was really tense until we got past poor man! Apprently when he was showjumped he was jumped by a lad so perhaps he wasn't treated well by men?
 
My kids pony is great with everyone except my OH, he can't even get a headcollar on in the stable.

If i'm out my 4 or 5 yr old have to go into the field to catch him, they get the headcollar over his nose but can't reach to fasten it, at this point my OH can walk up and finish the job.:D
 
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