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    I need some advice please

    Red and Welshruby... so sorry for late reply but I have been quite ill. Thank you for your kindness ...
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    I need some advice please

    Yes, I do feel my spirit is disabled.... disabled from being free. I am still stuck in the past. Dont get me wrong I have a very responsible job, with people trusting me with their Selves, and I am good at what I do (or good enough) but when it comes to my own past, my own hurt. It is a...
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    I need some advice please

    Batgirl thank you for the feedback, I have def. taken it on board.
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    nervous about buying and what people think

    forgot to say, soulfull thank you for all this info I have to print it out!
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    nervous about buying and what people think

    Try to follow your dream Lexi, this is what I am doing. Surround yourself with people who are able to celebrate you and your dreams. It must be hard doing these things without your mother... I wish you lots of strength and luck Mia
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    I need some advice please

    diamonddogs, im sorry you too have lost some confidence, but Im also glad I am not alone! I am looking forward to reading more from you (and everyone else) I wonder if it might help us to share our fear (well for me it is fear anyway) Hopefully I will see you around the boards :) Goldenstar...
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    I need some advice please

    Yes, you are so right. It is such a difficult subject for many...
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    I need some advice please

    I wish for this too... I had hoped that if I get used to my horse at first and walk with him/her for the first few months we could get used to each other but I realise now that I have some more work to do on myself before I can take this step. I am so glad I have found you guys because I know...
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    I need some advice please

    That sounds like a good place to start! Thank you
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    I need some advice please

    Thank you! Im glad I can stay here :) Thank you...
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    I need some advice please

    Im moved to tears, thank you so much striker, regandal and melody grey. it all makes so much sense. I have been so naive (I do get like this from time to time! grr) Melody grey, especially your post has moved me.... thank you so much PS, I would like to continue talking to people about my...
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    I need some advice please

    Thank you :) I really needed to hear this. Im glad I came here.
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    I need some advice please

    Thank you magnetic sparrow. I feel deeply saddened but agree with you.... It may be a long road for me until I can have my own horse.... But I am willing to put in the work... I just would like to ask of people who feel in any way upset about my story not to reply to me. I understand it is...
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    I need some advice please

    Thank you so much to all of you and again, I am very sorry if I have upset some people. This was not my intention. I cant believe I have not thought of this before - therapy riding lessons. This sounds so right and I will def. take this advice on board. The last thing I want to do is cause...
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    I need some advice please

    Hello all I hope someone can shed some light for me.... 20 years ago I last sat on a horse. That was when I was around 17. I started horseback riding at around 10. I now want to take it up again but.... there is something that is making this difficult and this is what I need help or advice...
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