Caol Ila
Well-Known Member
I think my last riding goal was in 2002 when I was trying to get my horse to Medium but ran out of talent/willpower. Never found either.
Then my next horsey goal was leaving a livery yard, which sounds straightforward, but isn't when you can't seem to find a yard that will suit your neurotic horse, not for love nor money. I spent years going through phases of yard hunting. But last Oct/Nov, I had my last straw with the old yard and jumped blindly. Not the cleverest way to do it and lots of drama ensued (you can find the thread for all the gory details). Despite a clusterf**ck, we ended up at a lovely yard, and she is more or less retired from dressage and lives the life of leisure hacking out. I've made good friends at the yard, the hacking is amazing, my horse doesn't fencewalk, and it's so nice to feel like I have a horsey community again after so many years of isolation.
Sadly, there are days where Gypsum is showing her age more. She went onto Prascend on Monday, which will hopefully help. Vet and my mother (a nurse practitioner) seem very positive. Up until age 26, she seemed impervious to aging, but it started to nip at her heels last year. I guess that was why we finally moved -- the underlying reason. The moment she showed some age-related problems, I knew I had to get the hell out of that yard. I always knew it would come to that. I had a terrible relationship with the YO, and when managing a senior horse, I think you need to be on good terms and feel comfortable communicating with yard staff/owners.
Next year, I just hope I can keep her going. Don't think she will happy as a retired horse, and given her penchant for fencewalking at yards she dislikes (most of them), I can't risk moving her to some 'retirement yard' she might hate.
Then my next horsey goal was leaving a livery yard, which sounds straightforward, but isn't when you can't seem to find a yard that will suit your neurotic horse, not for love nor money. I spent years going through phases of yard hunting. But last Oct/Nov, I had my last straw with the old yard and jumped blindly. Not the cleverest way to do it and lots of drama ensued (you can find the thread for all the gory details). Despite a clusterf**ck, we ended up at a lovely yard, and she is more or less retired from dressage and lives the life of leisure hacking out. I've made good friends at the yard, the hacking is amazing, my horse doesn't fencewalk, and it's so nice to feel like I have a horsey community again after so many years of isolation.
Sadly, there are days where Gypsum is showing her age more. She went onto Prascend on Monday, which will hopefully help. Vet and my mother (a nurse practitioner) seem very positive. Up until age 26, she seemed impervious to aging, but it started to nip at her heels last year. I guess that was why we finally moved -- the underlying reason. The moment she showed some age-related problems, I knew I had to get the hell out of that yard. I always knew it would come to that. I had a terrible relationship with the YO, and when managing a senior horse, I think you need to be on good terms and feel comfortable communicating with yard staff/owners.
Next year, I just hope I can keep her going. Don't think she will happy as a retired horse, and given her penchant for fencewalking at yards she dislikes (most of them), I can't risk moving her to some 'retirement yard' she might hate.