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charlie55

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I HATE some horsey girls!!

Why do girls insist on flirting like hell with farriers, and txt their farriers to flirt with them even when there at home!!!
 
I don't think that's just limited to horsey girls though
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Arrgghh I HATE some farriers!!

Why do farriers insist on flirting like hell with girls, and text girls to flirt with them even when they are at home!!!
 
Why r you taking this as some joke? Im being serious, im asingle parent and my little boy has lost his dad because of slutty girls cant take nofor an answer and seem to love txting to wind me up! So you lot that do it, good on you, goruin more familes!
 
charlie55 you can't throw that in our face when you didn't even tell us that in your first post, my husband left me for someone else 4 months ago so know how it affects the kids, hugs to you and it will get better given time.
Hugs to you xx
 
i don't think it's got anything to do with whether someone is a farrier, some women (and men) are just like that.
a saddler who used to do my repairs told me i'd be amazed at the number of respectable-looking women who offered him "payment in kind" - and he wasn't exactly Brad Pitt either... i was utterly shocked.
sorry to hear what happened to you but if he was going to do it, he would have done it, flirting, texting etc or not imho, some people are just like that, it goes both ways. hope you find someone faithful next time.
btw last week, my farrier, who is about half my age (literally) was following me across the field and said "i love my job". i had no idea what he was on about and said so, and he grinned and said "lovely view"... i mean, honestly. saggy bum in saggy breeches.
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It has effected him in a big way, what can you tell a 2 year old when he crys for daddy? He hasnt left me for someone else (feel for u samstar),, I couldnt handle it anymore so they won in the end.

Some people!!!
 
So sorry for little un, my kids are old enough 16 and 23, and there was no love loss between us, just found it hard being on my own again after 18 yrs.
Is ex making an effort to see him as much as possible though?
 
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Why r you taking this as some joke? Im being serious, im asingle parent and my little boy has lost his dad because of slutty girls cant take nofor an answer and seem to love txting to wind me up! So you lot that do it, good on you, goruin more familes!

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Erm surely its more the fault of your HUSBAND not being able to say no??????------ think your blamie is a bit misplaced!
 
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It has effected him in a big way, what can you tell a 2 year old when he crys for daddy? He hasnt left me for someone else (feel for u samstar),, I couldnt handle it anymore so they won in the end.

Some people!!!

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so, are you saying that you separated because of the texts and the flirting, not because he actually did anything? and you are still getting texts, calls etc to your house even though he's not there?
if so, my mind is boggling a bit.
 
tbh, its not the people texting him that are all to blame- i know for a fact that Angelina Jolie herself could text naked pictures of herself to my OH and he wouldn't turn a hair.

i totally trust him, hence think it is funny when people try and flirt with him (he is a personal trainer so has lots of female clients and one on one sessions)
 
If it wasn't a horsey girl, it would have been another girl. Some men will stray. he should continue to support your son though. Blame him though, not the girls.
 
It only happend last week, but i know he will see our son alot as hes a brill dad, at the moment he cant come round without getting upset, he hates whats these girls have done to us but they will not stop, so end of.

Just wish these immature twits would realise what they are actually doing!! Alot of my ex's mates have had the same problem and lost their partners over it.

I mean if you txt your farrier to ask about coming to get a shoe put back on would you follow it by xxxxxxxxxx. How sad!!
 
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It has effected him in a big way, what can you tell a 2 year old when he crys for daddy? He hasnt left me for someone else (feel for u samstar),, I couldnt handle it anymore so they won in the end.

Some people!!!

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so, are you saying that you separated because of the texts and the flirting, not because he actually did anything? and you are still getting texts, calls etc to your house even though he's not there?
if so, my mind is boggling a bit.

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The Jeremy Kyle disease so prevalent in Latest News right now is obviously contagious!
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It has effected him in a big way, what can you tell a 2 year old when he crys for daddy? He hasnt left me for someone else (feel for u samstar),, I couldnt handle it anymore so they won in the end.

Some people!!!

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(((((( hugs))))))) but why let a bunch of mndless idiots, get to you? as far as a am comcerned these stupid girls just make themselves look desperate and cheap
 
some people put xxxxx's on every text they send, regardless of who they are sending it too- particularly teenage girls!

it doesn't mean they fancy him, and he could always tell them to pack it in???

tbh, it wouldn't bother me as long as he didn't reply in kind
 
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It only happend last week, but i know he will see our son alot as hes a brill dad, at the moment he cant come round without getting upset, he hates whats these girls have done to us but they will not stop, so end of.

Just wish these immature twits would realise what they are actually doing!! Alot of my ex's mates have had the same problem and lost their partners over it.

I mean if you txt your farrier to ask about coming to get a shoe put back on would you follow it by xxxxxxxxxx. How sad!!

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There HAS to be more to the story than this surely? If someone texted my OH and added xxxx to the end I wouldn't kick him out over it - a)it's hardly his fault and b)he's not going to act on it. This really is very baffling.
 
would it not have been more easily rectified by having a work phone and a home phone, work phone switched off after say 6pm when he's at home. It is a rare occasion I would contact my farrier after that time anyway.

Am sorry but I dont see how this has become such a big issue or that it is the girls fault.

I follow my texts up with promises of flapjack and coffee if he comes to put said shoe back on.
 
SC, i think you could be right.
to OP, when you ask what you should tell your 2yr old when he cries for daddy, perhaps the truth is in order, poor little chap.
IF you trust him, and you are convinced he hasn't done anything yet, for heaven's sake get over your jealousy and let him come back, he chose YOU, and chose to have a child with you, not them, their flirting and stuff will be in vain if you prioritise your relationship over your (probably unfounded) jealousy.
fwiw i suggested that my OH went on holiday to SA for 2 weeks with a colleague (blonde, 10 years younger than me, drop-dead gorgeous fwiw!) because i couldn't go and i knew she'd have a great time. i trust him. simple. you can just let go of jealousy, it is utterly pointless anyway, if anything it drives people away and makes them more likely to do things imho.
 
No he hasnt done anything. But come on, if your fiance was getting txt's 24-7 from girls that dont just ask about their horses, they always flirt, wouldnt it wind you up after 3 years!! Maybe i am just a jealous person, maybe everyones to blame, maybe hes to blame, i dont know. Which is why i ended it. Just wanted to make it clear that some girls doing this dont realise what damage they are doing. Like i said, im not the only 'farrier's wife' thats had enough.
 
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No he hasnt done anything. But come on, if your fiance was getting txt's 24-7 from girls that dont just ask about their horses, they always flirt, wouldnt it wind you up after 3 years!! Maybe i am just a jealous person, maybe everyones to blame, maybe hes to blame, i dont know. Which is why i ended it. Just wanted to make it clear that some girls doing this dont realise what damage they are doing. Like i said, im not the only 'farrier's wife' thats had enough.

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Would I kick out a man I love, and have a child with over texts from girls, when he has actually done nothing wrong .... HELL NO
 
There is alot more to this story so i can see why you are all baffled by it, sorry. Just needed to have a shout about it. Thanks for your hugs x
 
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No he hasnt done anything. But come on, if your fiance was getting txt's 24-7 from girls that dont just ask about their horses, they always flirt, wouldnt it wind you up after 3 years!! Maybe i am just a jealous person, maybe everyones to blame, maybe hes to blame, i dont know. Which is why i ended it. Just wanted to make it clear that some girls doing this dont realise what damage they are doing. Like i said, im not the only 'farrier's wife' thats had enough.

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No, I trust my fiancee, it's why I agreed to marry him. Have you ever heard the saying 'we create the things we fear the most'? Seems like it is pretty true in this case, and I feel very sorry for your ex and your little boy, neither of whom have done anything wrong and yet are being punished for your (as far as I can tell unfounded since your ex by your own admission did nothing) jealousy. How incredibly sad for them.

I can't blame the girls at all, we all promise the earth to our farriers to get them to put shoes back on etc, I have no desire to shag mine, but I am ultra-nice to him and take him tea and cake because on the occasion that my horse pulls a shoe the day before a big comp, I want him to come and put it back on that day, pronto. I would imagine most of the girls texting your ex feel the same way. Have you thought about some relationship counselling?
 
Sounds like you are very insecure to me.
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Jealousy ruined one of my relatioships. It's sad if he hasn't done anything wrong. Somehow i doubt these girls are flirting really either.
 
You really do need to get togehter with him and talk. If he has not done anything and you are sure of this, then it is hardly his fault if girls are texting him, is it?

The only people that are sufering are you, your fiancee, and most importantly your little boy.

These girls wont give a toss either way.

you need to calm down a bit, me thinks.
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