racebuddy
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I’m sure they posted they had cancelledThe baby eventer is off to Eland Lodge tomorrow for the 90! Fingers crossed he's as well behaved as his last time out!
I’m sure they posted they had cancelledThe baby eventer is off to Eland Lodge tomorrow for the 90! Fingers crossed he's as well behaved as his last time out!
About the right weather for tractors - can't even hack down our bridlepaths the mud is so deep so I'm not surprised events are being cancelled.Penistone South Yorkshire tractor run on Sunday, 120 tractors passing through all the local villages, big charity run with prizes and big raffle, great fun.
It's the same here some of the woods opposite just looks like mini lakes everywhere, the dog nearly disappeared in one a few days ago it was that deepAbout the right weather for tractors - can't even hack down our bridlepaths the mud is so deep so I'm not surprised events are being cancelled.
I was thinking about recording my e riders intro test but there's not a section in it for paddling in lakes.
I think you did a great job. You spotted something that would cause you / the horse stress and you found a good way to calm the situation. Big well done on keeping calm and staying onReally feeling for people trying to get their season underway!
Hack number one of the weekend done. I am very proud of myself for staying on the horse because there was a point, despite being on lead rein and planning to do the same ride as last time, I panicked and really, really wanted to get off. Instead I told the unhelpful thoughts to do one while I focused on breathing, not tensing up, and making a decision about what to do to de-escalate the situation.
I get a bit more nervous on the homeward journey but was feeling okay about it today, until we spotted another pony and rider heading along our homeward road. I'm not sure how share horse simultaneously does a giraffe impression whilst somehow making feel like his neck has disappeared, but that excitable feeling he had made me think following this pony home might end up with silliness/jogging and I'm not at a stage (mentally) to be able to manage that.
I'm not sure if it was the right/best decision but standing was going to just wind him up because he could still see/hear the pony, so I gave myself a moment to catch my breath and turned away from home along another road. Stopped in a gateway to calm down/state repeatedly how much I wanted to get off, then we made our homeward turn. I did feel like we were marching towards the start at Aintree (objectively funny, he is a cob!) but was able to keep calm and actually as we got to home, the lead rein came off again and I was back smiling.
Thoughts on my approach to that situation most welcome, I will also speak to owner for their take. I need to see it as a learning opportunity to know how to navigate things like that which can come up on a hack.
Well I've decided to scratch from the C/T BD champs
I took Dima on a little walk around the block today was feeling pretty flat. Also, not a cough as such, but he blew his nose 4 x on the way round too.
I know I could take him and he'd still put in a good performance and I don't think it would actually make him any worse.
However, I don't want to have to really ride and cajole a good test out of him, it doesn't sit well with me and also, this was never his season highlight, it was a bonus and surprise when he won the qualifier as I only entered for some practice!
A few days off and I'll pop some respirator in his feeds and see how he is mid-week, in case we need something stronger from the vets.
So a weekend of gardening and moving electric fencing for me instead!
We were three quarters of the way down when we heard about the cancellation, hotel was paid for so decided just to keep on going and head over to the yard instead. No luck finding any other competition to go to so Paddy and Pretty had a bit of a jump at home, then lorry pulled out and we headed off to pick up an ex racer for Bob's rider to have fun on! He's home bred but a not a great race horse. Loaded and travelled well and looks like he settled in already so looking forward to following his progress.
Penistone South Yorkshire tractor run on Sunday, 120 tractors passing through all the local villages, big charity run with prizes and big raffle, great fun.
Me too , Layla has her first run this year Monday hope to see you mule I’m not in your section though layla is in the one with Mary King and Tom MckeonAnd now back on! They've added an extra section on Monday and we're in! Phew
Me too , Layla has her first run this year Monday hope to see you mule I’m not in your section though layla is in the one with Mary King and Tom Mckeon
He’s got a lovely face!We were three quarters of the way down when we heard about the cancellation, hotel was paid for so decided just to keep on going and head over to the yard instead. No luck finding any other competition to go to so Paddy and Pretty had a bit of a jump at home, then lorry pulled out and we headed off to pick up an ex racer for Bob's rider to have fun on! He's home bred but a not a great race horse. Loaded and travelled well and looks like he settled in already so looking forward to following his progress.
That's rubbish, sorry
Test is marked already. 65% which feels about right. It was a vanilla test, nothing bad but no sparkle either.Well we got our dressage test filmed & submitted. Not our best work but as T wasn’t in a pingy mood today I felt it was an acceptable test. The mediums will be described as ‘modest’ at best but it was a clean take and I’ll be interested to see how it scores.
Now I need to pick a day when T is feeling more exuberant to try the elementary test.
I think you did a great job. You spotted something that would cause you / the horse stress and you found a good way to calm the situation. Big well done on keeping calm and staying on
I can't remember if I've asked you this before, but have you considered getting your GP to prescribe beta blockers? I have perimenopausal anxiety and sometimes find I'm starting to get stressed before a lesson (usually a group lesson). If I take one, it just ramps the anxiety down to a minor level and I can get on with doing the stuff I love. I don't take them all the time, but on days when I'm feeling twitchy, they are great.Thank you! I spoke with owner today and she agreed it was a sensible thing to do so that's good.
Not sure how I'm managing to go backwards again with riding. Logically I should take confidence from yesterday, I stayed on the horse, handled the situation, and ended on a good note. Today I was anxious to even get on. Walked round the arena in hand, got on, OH lead reining me round for a bit and then got off. A couple of weeks ago I did a pole clinic. Make it make sense?!?
I can't remember if I've asked you this before, but have you considered getting your GP to prescribe beta blockers? I have perimenopausal anxiety and sometimes find I'm starting to get stressed before a lesson (usually a group lesson). If I take one, it just ramps the anxiety down to a minor level and I can get on with doing the stuff I love. I don't take them all the time, but on days when I'm feeling twitchy, they are great.