horseymummy
Active Member
Sorry but this is a very long story - About two months ago my dearest hubby told his friend that his daughters could come and help me with my ponies. I didnt really want any help but thought what the hell and didnt want to dissappoint the already excited girls. Anyway it turns out that hubby had told them that they could come as often as they liked and could ride the ponies. Again Its wasnt what I wanted but after assurances that they were both confident riders and had had private lessons for 4 years I decided that it shouldnt be a problem. So the girls came for every night for a week and just got used to being around the ponies, they groomed them and lead them from and to the fields etc - I did say after a week it was probably too much that they were coming every night for two hours so i cut it down to four evenings. They came the week after and started to ask if they could ride them, I did tell them they would need rider insurance and also need to help with things like poo picking. Insurance was very quickly sorted and girls were told they they could ride. This is where the cracks began to appear, one of the girls wouldnt poo pick because it was boring and followed me round asking if i could do that on a night when she wasnt coming because it was boring. This also happens when i fill haynets, do waters and muck out etc. I explained to her the need to to all jobs and that having ponies wasnt all about riding. Their riding ability is not at all confident, one is not too bad and has very soft hands (so the pony loves her) but doesnt always have control and the other one will not ride unless I lead her around (on a pony that only has one gear, you are lucky if you get him to trot) This means that whenever they ride I have to give my full attention. I said that she doesnt need leading as it is a very small paddock she is riding in and know that the pony wont do anything. I am fed up will walking around in circle for 45 minutes at a time.
I am at a point now that I dread them coming I cannot leave them around my poines whilst I do my chores as I dont think they are competant enough, I really want to tell them that they cant come anymore but I know they will be too upset. I did say that they need to cut down on the days again but they just keep coming. I just dont know what to do. I wish my bloody husband had never opened his mouth. Hubby isn't horsey or I would have made him do it.
I am at a point now that I dread them coming I cannot leave them around my poines whilst I do my chores as I dont think they are competant enough, I really want to tell them that they cant come anymore but I know they will be too upset. I did say that they need to cut down on the days again but they just keep coming. I just dont know what to do. I wish my bloody husband had never opened his mouth. Hubby isn't horsey or I would have made him do it.