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I dont know whether i should put this in this section but am so disgraced with what i have heard to day.

I just found out that a man on the yard (who seemed ok) is actually living a double life and has a wife and a girlfriend which off course they dont know about each other. He tells his wife he works nights and instead he is with his girlfriend he even paid for a work van to make it realistic.

As if this isnt bad enough, a few weeks ago he brought his girlfriends daughter (not his) a pony but have found out that it is also his sons with the wife. He has the son come up in mornings to see the pony and muck out and then on the night his girlfriend comes up to see the pony.

I just find it digusting how he could do this, its bad enough cheating but to bring a pony into it telling each child it is their pony, how heart broken are they going to be if ever the truth did come out!

I really dont know what to do...i dont think i will be able to talk to him no more. And i have also been told hes asked out a few of the girls on the yard to
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!!! I really am tempted to spill the beans as i really am disgusted with him.
 
Bloody hell. He's got some stamina. What a complete bastard. Are you sure this is all true? You know what people are like, they do love to exagerate!
 
I would leave well alone...it is not a nice thing to do and not agreeable in my books but each to their own and let them get on with it. Anyway, unless you have heard it from the person themself I never believe things that have been gossiped about.
 
I agree with you that it's not a good situation, but as for saying anything - DON'T. It's really NOT any of your business what he gets up to wheterh you agree with it or not.

If it's not affecting you directly then you have no cause to say anything at all to ANYONE
 
My advice is to stay out of it. It really is none of your business and you wont be thanked by any of those involved. Stand back and wait for the fireworks-they will go off sooner or later. Promise to tell all when it happens?
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. Honestly, stay well out of it. M.
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shocking indeed but you wouldn't be thanked by anyone involved for spilling the beans! chances are he will get found out and hopefully the 2 women involved will have enough support from family and friends to help them through it and if they have any sense they'll both string him up by his balls!!!
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If the rumours are true the truth will come out without any help from you so I would just keep out of it and sit and watch and wait. Sooner or later he'll trip himself up.

Don't forget to let us know what happens though will you
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Feel for the kids though if this is true
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They will be gutted
 
Lol true...will be better than any soap when they do find out. Just dont get why tell both lot of kids its there pony, would have been easier to keep it with one of the families. Just waiting now for the day the wife turns up in evening to see pony to find out hes up there with girlfriend that will be interesting.
 
Hehe don't worry will let you all know!!!
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I think it will come out soon though because he has told his girlfriend that they are on full livery and thats why pony is already mucked out. If she ever talked to someone on the yard about livery she would soon know its DIY and then the questions would be asked.
 
i wouldnt worry about it, judge him all you want people who do this with kids are dirty, horrid, nasty types of people who are sooo self obsessed and usually have failure issues (as they generally are), but at the end of the day i wouldnt waste my breath spilling the beans, the truth will deffo out these things have a way of coming out in the end and be asured it will,,, and you wont be involved!! best way to be!! what goes around comes around IMO!! mite take time but it will!!!!!
 
Your so right!!!

I understand what some of you are saying and maybe it is non of my business but i am not prepared to lie for him with his dirty games and if he was ever to try n ask me out like he has been asking other girls i would completley disgrace him.

These am young kids who he is messing around with to, lying to them, giving them something they have wanted for ages but its not really all theres.

I am really just having a bit of a rant...i need to get it out my system. Am afraid i am not the kind of person who can hear something like that and just pretend it isnt happening though i wont just go and tell but i wont lie for him. And i really am so sorry for his girlfriends daughters who i helped so much to get them confident with horses. He also told many of the ladies that he is doing this so really he is opening himself for critism.
 
I'd definitely agree that it's better to stay out of it . . . However I would secretly be hoping that both wife and GF find out ASAP because no human being deserves to be treated the way this heinous man is treating both of them and their children . . .
 
Yeah i think i will stay out of it...i just dont know what to do if i do get asked a question by the daughters of his girlfriend about something he has lied about. As i dont really want to lie for him but it will be such a awkward situation. Plus i dont really like lying and feel so bad knowing this now as i wish i could do something about it though i know it will turn very bad on me if i do. I get on with one the daughters so well too...maybe will try and avoid them or something because i feel so bad because what he is doing to them.
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Yep - that could prove very awkward. There really isn't anything you can do other than evade the question/change subject or avoid talking to her about anything related to said man
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Yeah just going to have to be careful now with what say on yard. I just really so sorry for the kids, and the wife and girlfriend. It is such a awful thing to do, cheating is bad enough though i know many people have reasons...but dragging the kids into it. Like one day they will all find out and i am sure the two families are not going to want to carry on sharing this pony so there is going to be so much heart break.
 
Yeah going to keep my big mouth quiet will just give him evil glares instead when ever i see him lol. I hope the truth does come out though the longer he gets away with it the more bigger bond they will all have with the pony.
 
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