j1ffy
Well-Known Member
SaddlePsych'd - that doesn't sound like a fun experience at all, what a shame. I do think you can 'click' with some instructors more than others but, as Red-1 said, that sounds like a real failure on their part. I've had instructors who seem to think that being negative helps (perhaps so you try harder and harder for a positive comment?!) but actually it can come across as very controlling and border-line manipulative. I'm all for honest, even blunt, feedback but not a drip-drip of negativity. I hope the next instructor is a big improvement!
It's been a tricky couple of days at work so it was just lovely to get out on Chilli last night. He was very enthusiastic and I let him pick the direction out of the yard - we usually go left and around the village but he felt adventurous and headed to the right. That route goes straight up to a National Trust site, White Horse Hill, which so far I've avoided as it can be very overwhelming with sheep, children, kites, dogs and the odd paraglider. I also tend to find horses always get a spring in their step...after all it is the home of Epona. Well, he was just great. I hopped off to open the gate at the bottom and he stood like a rock when I got on, then stormed on up the road with ears pricked. He did jog when we turned around to go home but that was it, overall just a lovely stroll out on a beautiful evening:
We braved the heat today for some schooling and he was a good boy again, still a little tense after canter but it's improving hugely. I have to remind myself that walk / trot was the same a few months ago but he's now 90% better in those paces so we will get there!
It's been a tricky couple of days at work so it was just lovely to get out on Chilli last night. He was very enthusiastic and I let him pick the direction out of the yard - we usually go left and around the village but he felt adventurous and headed to the right. That route goes straight up to a National Trust site, White Horse Hill, which so far I've avoided as it can be very overwhelming with sheep, children, kites, dogs and the odd paraglider. I also tend to find horses always get a spring in their step...after all it is the home of Epona. Well, he was just great. I hopped off to open the gate at the bottom and he stood like a rock when I got on, then stormed on up the road with ears pricked. He did jog when we turned around to go home but that was it, overall just a lovely stroll out on a beautiful evening:
We braved the heat today for some schooling and he was a good boy again, still a little tense after canter but it's improving hugely. I have to remind myself that walk / trot was the same a few months ago but he's now 90% better in those paces so we will get there!