I'll bet they're not contentious Groups though, ester. Some Groups I pop into have few members who actually post - and have no need. As in one OP, maybe 1 reply 5 days ago. So the OP post again to boost it to the top - when it was only 3rd to start with. But the BHS Members Group was having a huge number of new posts and loads of replies very fast - and a lot of those replies were from the same 1 or 2 people that said NOTHING new. Some members in bad satellite areas were crashing repeatedly. (I certainly was.)
Its all a mess. No one is representing themselves well and people are walking away rather than be drawn into the drama. If you cant sort this out between yourselves what hope do you have of doing anything else?