SilverLinings
Well-Known Member
Another fatal attack on a child has just been reported, it is so sad that this has happened again.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-64476833
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-64476833
As a family we have never left a young child alone with the family dog or visiting dog , no matter what the size or temperament of the dog , and at that time , there didn’t seem to be reports of dog attacks but we only had the tv or daily papers to see any info , so sad that a child has died . Maybe we need some sort of advert on the tv and social media to make people aware of the dangers , similar to the HIV ads..
Either way, after this I hope people won't be complaining about rescues not adopting out to families with young children.
Generalising here, as we obviously don't know what happened, and I don't want to insinuate that the parents were negligent in any way:Theres plenty of dogs in rescues that would be ideal for a family with children. The issue is rescues adopting out these huge dogs with temperament issues, if that's what happened.
The Mail is reporting that the dog was an American Bully the family got from a rescue a few weeks ago according to a neighbour. I’d be amazed if a rescue rehomed such a dog to a family, they are surely culpable to some degree if they did. There is a post on Facebook about an American bully needing to be rehomed in MK a few weeks ago because it killed a chihuahua. I really, really hope it isn’t the same dog. Because imo that is morally (albeit not legally) murder.
Can we please stop the narrative that dementia will happen to every older person? 1 in 6 of people over 80 have the illness, which means that 5 out of six willNot have the disease
The dogs that we would consider for someone 70+ are also the dogs that are suitable for many homes so I'm afraid we would probably take the home with younger applicants.
I get all the reasons for not rehoming to older people but I still maintain that even though my lovely friend did get dementia in her LATE 80s she gave a loving a caring home to four dogs over 20 years all of whom were rehomes - one privately, one from Battersea, one from Dogs Trust and one from RSPCA. She provided a safe and loving environment and her dogs were small to medium sized ( staffy, shitzu, chi x jrt and a spaniel x).
She was very comfortable financially and her dogs were her world. She had a large house and secure garden. She lived opposite a common where the dogs were walked twice daily. I do not believe she was unusual.
I don't want to derail the thread too much (sorry folks!) When considering applicants, if you (one) have two potential homes which are both assessed as suitable in all other ways but choose based on age then that is ageist. I sincerely hope that this is not actually happening.
There are lessons here in how we all, regardless of age, need to think ahead and plan for what provision there will be for our dogs if we are incapacitated physically or mentally. That's not age-dependent, anything could happen to any of us at any time.