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I spoke to a professional about this recently as I wasn't sure if it was fair to put him back in this situation when there is an increased risk of the tendon breaking down. But she said any horse could break down at any time and it might never happen to Lari. Given the alternative we feel it's worth the gamble.

The vet knows that the rehab was for a period of 6-8 weeks, I've no intention of leaving it longer as it's very, very good at this point in his rehab. We can only hope for the best and give him the chance.

If it holds out for a few months that would be great. I can reassess in the winter.

One thing is for sure when he's left me that's it. He won't be coming home again.
 

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I would support if you chose to PTS given all that you have done for him.

However, no-one seems to have suggested it but have you considered a grass free track livery as an option for him if he comes 'field sound' but struggles with mud and grass. More and more of such facilities seem to be popping up.

Best of luck whatever you choose to do.
Yes there is one I saw on FB that's local. That may be a good option. Thank you.
 

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I spoke to a professional about this recently as I wasn't sure if it was fair to put him back in this situation when there is an increased risk of the tendon breaking down. But she said any horse could break down at any time and it might never happen to Lari. Given the alternative we feel it's worth the gamble.

The vet knows that the rehab was for a period of 6-8 weeks, I've no intention of leaving it longer as it's very, very good at this point in his rehab. We can only hope for the best and give him the chance.

If it holds out for a few months that would be great. I can reassess in the winter.

One thing is for sure when he's left me that's it. He won't be coming home again.
I like that you know your mind. I think you are being fair to him and to yourself. Hopefully this time the ground will be dry and he will cope. If not, then I guess he will have proved himself unable to cope with retirement. Even if that were to happen, which would be sad, you will know that you did your best to secure his happiness.
 

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I like that you know your mind. I think you are being fair to him and to yourself. Hopefully this time the ground will be dry and he will cope. If not, then I guess he will have proved himself unable to cope with retirement. Even if that were to happen, which would be sad, you will know that you did your best to secure his happiness.
Thank you for understanding.
 

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Thank you for understanding.
I have been there with another horse. He proved not capable of a retirement but I am content with that as he had every opportunity (including 2 years of rehab and much vet intervention). He did, however, have 2 years of the best retirement I could give him and those 2 years were priceless for my peace of mind.

When it was time, I knew it was time. No doubts. It was not a day too late either, it was the right time. No one else could have known when the right time was, it was between me and him.

I think that you will have gained peace in the future.
 

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I spoke to a professional about this recently as I wasn't sure if it was fair to put him back in this situation when there is an increased risk of the tendon breaking down. But she said any horse could break down at any time and it might never happen to Lari. Given the alternative we feel it's worth the gamble.

The vet knows that the rehab was for a period of 6-8 weeks, I've no intention of leaving it longer as it's very, very good at this point in his rehab. We can only hope for the best and give him the chance.

If it holds out for a few months that would be great. I can reassess in the winter.

One thing is for sure when he's left me that's it. He won't be coming home again.

Best wishes B, he couldn't hope for a more dedicated owner.
 

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When it was time, I knew it was time. No doubts. It was not a day too late either, it was the right time. No one else could have known when the right time was, it was between me and him.

I think that you will have gained peace in the future.
That is EXACTLY like I was with Bailey. Exactly the right time, right day, even down the right minute. Sun on her back, almost asleep stood bravely in the field.

I will know when it is right for Lari too.

I have no qualms. Having held a horse for the first time for a very dear friend yesterday, (we walked away from Bailey) it brought it home to me that we all have to go through it at some stage and it is possible it could happen to Lari sooner or later. We will make the right decision for 'the tongue' too and we won't let him down.
 

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That is EXACTLY like I was with Bailey. Exactly the right time, right day, even down the right minute. Sun on her back, almost asleep stood bravely in the field.

I will know when it is right for Lari too.

I have no qualms. Having held a horse for the first time for a very dear friend yesterday, (we walked away from Bailey) it brought it home to me that we all have to go through it at some stage and it is possible it could happen to Lari sooner or later. We will make the right decision for 'the tongue' too and we won't let him down.
You will know.

I did with M last year. I'd been a bit worried but the ground was hard and then I just got a feeling of "enough" from him one day. I went home, called the vets and bawled my eyes out. The horse that hated vets and would tow us around the yard to avoid an injection didn't move a muscle. He was ready.

Larri couldn't want for a better human in his corner right now. I hope the insulin test goes ok and you can come up with a plan.
 
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