Are you wasting your horses potential?

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I have recently been told that some of my ponies are wasted with me and that I should seriously consider selling them to people who would make use of them.

Now for the record I would never sell any of them unless I had to so I am more asking if you think your horse is wasted in what you do with it?

2 of the ponies I have been told to consider selling are a 5yo broodmare who has a foal every few years so we are not over run with ponies. She has never been backed and being only 39ins there isn't much point. She gets shown every so often as she is chestnut and not all judges do 'coloured ponies'. When she is shown she does well. I have been told to sell her to someone who will take a foal every year and show her every weekend. The other one is a 2yo filly who, at the moment, is a companion to retired racehorses and goes to the odd show. Why is she wasted doing that? It's not as if she can do anything else but munch grass at the moment!

The other one is one of my ridden ponies. He is a fab ridden pony with someone who can ride, with kids he is a lazy toad who does as little as possible. I got told by the mother of the kids that ride him that she should have him as she would take him to shows every week, her kids would ride him at least 5 times a week and he wouldn't just be standing around in a field. Now they have 5 ponies of their own and I just can't seem to get rid of them! As much as he loves showing he doesn't want to be out every weekend and at pony club every other day. I ride him myself 3 or 4 times a week to keep him ticking over.

If your horse is doing what you want it to do are you really wasting it? Yes it may progress further up the competition rankings with someone else but I am sure that they are just as happy to plod around the countryside, munching grass and being horses than getting traipsed up and down the country in a box and expected to perform every few days. In fact I am sure that they would be happy never to be ridden again so long as they had grass to eat!

Kind of a pointless post really but it's bugging me that people think my beasties are being wasted.
 
This is one of my biggest rant points. So long as a horse is healthy and happy and cared for, IT DOES NOT MATTER. I don't care about people who think it does, they can do what they fancy, but I do care when they make others feels like their horses are wasted with them - as has happened here.

Yes there are some horses who thrive on hard work, parties etc. But if they genuinely do, then they would not be happy if they weren't doing it. A healthy, happy horse does not know what it 'could be doing', they're not social climbers or ambitious like humans. Good for them!

For the record in this particular case, I don't see it serves anybody any better to have a mini mare foaling every year - there's plenty of minis about. I work at a stud (not minis) and we generally only put mares in foal alternate years.
 
Absolutely! My boy could have been very competitive BSJA (not top class though) with the right rider, he had consistent winnings when I bought him at 8.

Since then he has show jumped and dressaged unaffiliated, competed lower levels eventing and even some team chasing/BHS Trec/showing etc. A lot of the time he has just been a 'happy hack'.

He is more than happy with the easy life, and is still going strong at 20. I have no regrets and I'm pretty sure he doesn't either!

:)
 
A friend of mine sold a beautiful Irish Draught several years ago as she had a youngster to back and felt this guy was being wasted as she was just doing local stuff with him. A few years later she met up with him at a livery yard. He had White patches from badly fitting tack was underweight and poorly muscled and just being used as an 'oh look I have a horse' horse. She vetted his first home seriously but had no control after that. She was devastated.
As far as a horse is concerned I doubt they stand in the field wishing they were doing county level shows. If they are happy and well loved they are not wasted.
 
A friend of mine sold a beautiful Irish Draught several years ago as she had a youngster to back and felt this guy was being wasted as she was just doing local stuff with him. A few years later she met up with him at a livery yard. He had White patches from badly fitting tack was underweight and poorly muscled and just being used as an 'oh look I have a horse' horse. She vetted his first home seriously but had no control after that. She was devastated.
As far as a horse is concerned I doubt they stand in the field wishing they were doing county level shows. If they are happy and well loved they are not wasted.


this is just what my instructor told me when i worried i wasnt doing enough - she said "do you really think he stands in his field all day sulking wishing he was at hoys?"
Lol so long as you love him, care for him make sure he is adequarteley exercised does it matter? My boy will only ever be my happy hacker but hes happy, im happy so who cares :D
 
This is one of my biggest rant points. So long as a horse is healthy and happy and cared for, IT DOES NOT MATTER. I don't care about people who think it does, they can do what they fancy, but I do care when they make others feels like their horses are wasted with them - as has happened here.

Yes there are some horses who thrive on hard work, parties etc. But if they genuinely do, then they would not be happy if they weren't doing it. A healthy, happy horse does not know what it 'could be doing', they're not social climbers or ambitious like humans. Good for them!

For the record in this particular case, I don't see it serves anybody any better to have a mini mare foaling every year - there's plenty of minis about. I work at a stud (not minis) and we generally only put mares in foal alternate years.

^^^^ This.

My TB doesnt do much other than live in her field with a companion. Does she care she's not ridden or off to shows? I doubt it!
 
All horses want is enough food,water,shelter and companionship and room to gallop about in. So long as the horse has this his potential is not being wasted. He is happy enough.
 
I think most horses are far happier not being pushed to their limits. I have had to pick up the pieces of too many 'competition horses'. Yes, one of my horses was wasted with me. Her full brother was at advanced eventing level but I have never wanted to risk her eventing. I did showjump up to Newcomers, and dressage up to medium. She could have gone further, but I didn't have the time (or the money) to do that and run a livery yard. Did she care? Not a jot.
 
My horses grandfather was a champion... does that matter to her... well put it this way, he aint the one with the carrots!

Its sometimes a bugbear of mine, i felt really bad after a couple of members PMed me to say that my new pony should be with a family/little girl that could ride him and make him happy and i felt so bad, but really, hes just as happy charging about the feild with my mare as he would be being paraded round a show ring.
 
Never yet met a horse that plasters its stable with H&H cuttings of Badminton, HOYS, Olympia etc, or collects famous hoofprints, or insists of Sky-plussing Burghley to pick up extra tips on perfomance...:rolleyes: Humans care about this kind of thing; horses do not.

If your horse is healthy and happy and well cared for, then it's one of the lucky ones, potential or no.
 
My lad was a comp. driving horse, at a high level, he was miserable, stressed and in a bad state when we bought him. Now he is an extremely happy and chilled field ornament. He is talented, but does he care? Does he b*gger! He is just interested in his mate, grass and getting his cuddles. He doesn't mind if he doesn't get worked, as long as he is loved and well cared for.
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O yes. Most definitely.

I have a very nice sports horse by sir game out of a decent WB mare. Thus far in his life (he is six now) he has done two prelim tests and jumped one class at 60cms!

I would do more with him if I had my own transport but even so, he is much better than I am and I work full time and I'll never really 'do him justice' due to lack of time, lack of funds and lack of kahoonas. I am not ever going to want to jump more than a metre over solid fences even on my bravest days.

He is happy though and tbf he is a giant knobber and a lot of people wouldn't put up with his atrocious manners so I think he's done well to find me frankly! But yes, people probably think he's wasted with me. I don't really care though!
 
this is just what my instructor told me when i worried i wasnt doing enough - she said "do you really think he stands in his field all day sulking wishing he was at hoys?"

Love it! So true, don't think it is rosettes/ trophies they dream of, it is grass, turnout (except in winter for my lad) and more grass.
FDC
 
Well I have to be honest (,ravaged and thrown to savage beasts!) and say that sometimes I have observed riders on ponies that rarely get ridden doing a splendid jumping round and do think 'oh that horse could be doing so well if he was taken to shows, somebody could really enjoy him.' But at the end of the day, if he's happy and cared for and the owners are happy with him then it doesn't really matter or affect me.

I don't feel my horses are wasted, in the spring/summer I compete Comet between 3-6 times a month and Maisie around 2-4 times- a variety of endurance, showing, fun rides, show-jumping, xc, dressage and ode. In the winter it becomes more 2-3 times a month for them both usually just show-jumping and dressage with some endurance training rides. They both get ridden 6 days a week and they are both happy. I'm sure some would rather I did a lot less with them and I'm sure there are some who would do more but I enjoy them.
 
Sorry MaisieMooandCometToo I don't think that they are wasted, they have potential but so what if they don't fulfil it? As long as they are happy, what difference does it make? As I said my lad was a highly trained, successful comp. horse but he is totally happy being a horse in his field, rosettes aren't what matter to a horse, care and love are.By all means compete, I used to but the don't fool yourself the horse looks forward to it!
FDC
 
This is one of my biggest rant points. So long as a horse is healthy and happy and cared for, IT DOES NOT MATTER. I don't care about people who think it does, they can do what they fancy, but I do care when they make others feels like their horses are wasted with them - as has happened here.

Yes there are some horses who thrive on hard work, parties etc. But if they genuinely do, then they would not be happy if they weren't doing it. A healthy, happy horse does not know what it 'could be doing', they're not social climbers or ambitious like humans. Good for them!

^^^ This

If your horses/ponies are doing the job you want them to, are happy and well cared for, then they are definitely not wasted. This sort of thing really gets up my nose, it's none of anybody's business! :mad:
 
Never yet met a horse that plasters its stable with H&H cuttings of Badminton, HOYS, Olympia etc, or collects famous hoofprints, or insists of Sky-plussing Burghley to pick up extra tips on perfomance...:rolleyes: Humans care about this kind of thing; horses do not.

If your horse is healthy and happy and well cared for, then it's one of the lucky ones, potential or no.

lol i just have this wonderful mental image of horses drooling over pics of other horses, ohh do you think they would drool over riders as well;) can imagine my chestnut boy really going for carl hester:D

A horse doesn't know it has potential, it only has one aim in life and that's to survive!
my big girl went eventing with her old owner so i know she's certainly capable of doing more than hack with me, but so what. My horse, my life and we're happy:p;)
 
Quite pertinant to me at the moment. We've backed and ridden away our homebred filly (she's four) and I really don't want to take her to shows etc etc - I've done some showing before, but I really can't be bothered, I have horses to hack, that's where I get my fun. Even pleasure rides don't interest me, two hours is the absolute maximum I want to ride for these days! So, in the interests of her education, I'm thinking that she could go on loan for a year or so, to a PC type of home, to go out and hunt, show, camp etc etc, because at the moment she boggles at seeing another horse when out hacking - then she could come home and return to being a happy hacker!

I don't think horses are ambitious, but I do think they can get bored in the field - my old boy will give me a look sometimes as if to say 'please tell me we're going for a ride today?', normally when I haven't ridden for a week or more!
 
A friend of mine sold a beautiful Irish Draught several years ago as she had a youngster to back and felt this guy was being wasted as she was just doing local stuff with him. A few years later she met up with him at a livery yard. He had White patches from badly fitting tack was underweight and poorly muscled and just being used as an 'oh look I have a horse' horse. She vetted his first home seriously but had no control after that. She was devastated.
As far as a horse is concerned I doubt they stand in the field wishing they were doing county level shows. If they are happy and well loved they are not wasted.

^^^ This too!

I sold Ruby last year beacause I felt she was wasted with me. I turned down lots of people who didn't sound right for her and sold her to girl that I thought was perfect in every way...WRONG. She was advertised within 2 weeks and her perfect owner refused to speak to me. I have no idea what happened to her, I wish she was still being wasted with me. :(
 
Sorry MaisieMooandCometToo I don't think that they are wasted, they have potential but so what if they don't fulfil it? As long as they are happy, what difference does it make? As I said my lad was a highly trained, successful comp. horse but he is totally happy being a horse in his field, rosettes aren't what matter to a horse, care and love are.By all means compete, I used to but the don't fool yourself the horse looks forward to it!
FDC

It did say that as long as they and the owners are happy then it doesn't matter :)
I don't think a horse has the ability to look forward to something as I believe they 'live in the moment'? I do however believe that both my horses enjoy their competitions when they do them. Not because they realisie they're competing or for the rosettes, that's why I enjoy it but because for them it's something different to do :)
 
definitely!
my mare can do dressage, showjumping, cross country and she loves doing it too. also hacking and proper schooling etc etc but when we sold our transport we simply just stopped...and new yard doesn't have a school.
so now she's ridden once or twice a week as opposed to 5 or 6 and she's been like that a few years!

do you know what it hasn't bothered her an inch...she's just as happy mooching in the field as she is being worked regularly. she's having a lot of time off at the moment as saddle doesn't fit and back lady gave her a weight limit which i'm slimming into and admittedly she does look bored. but have started freeschooling her etc and giving her fuss and she looks a bit happier.

either way she doesn't care !
 
Who is to say what your horses potential is? I sometimes dont get it when people say that a horse has too much potential for a rider and that the rider is holding it back, as long as horse and rider are having fun and doing well I sometimes fail to see what is wasted in that :)
 
I don't think my horses care so long as they get regular cuddles and scratches, a nice paddock and friends to live with.

My boy has buckets of talent- but so do ALL horses IMO, he's definitely being 'wasted' but he doesn't seem bothered ;)... he doesn't know what he's missing out on. I find competition etc stressful for us both anyway. My Mare I'd liketo ultimately do dressage in when she's a little older/
 
I've often been told that I have wasted my horse's potential. My instructor - who found her for me in the first place - still to this day (11 years on :rolleyes: ) tries to buy her back from us; I know he has always felt that we never took her as far as she could have gone. And he's probably right - if we had had the time, money and ambition to do the breed classes (5,6,7yr old etc) then she would have been great, and I've got no doubt that with a braver and more talented jockey, she'd have done the Newcomers second rounds. And then....shock horror.....she spent 7 years being a pure happy hacker after I gave up jumping altogether! But as many have already said, horses have no comprehension of how 'good' they may or may not be, and all I know is that Ellie is as happy as any horse could be. I was actually having this conversation with someone at the yard the other day - we've been doing a few ODEs at local level, and having great fun, but our dressage always lets us down, and the lady at the yard cannot understand why I don't try harder to improve Ellie's flatwork - we'd never be able to go BE as our dressage is far too atrocious. And at 16, I just feel we're too far down the line for me to try fighting against her now - but I know many people find this hard to understand!
Hey ho. We're happy, and that's what really matters! :D
 
Never yet met a horse that plasters its stable with H&H cuttings of Badminton, HOYS, Olympia etc, or collects famous hoofprints, or insists of Sky-plussing Burghley to pick up extra tips on perfomance...:rolleyes: Humans care about this kind of thing; horses do not.

If your horse is healthy and happy and well cared for, then it's one of the lucky ones, potential or no.

Spudlet saved me typing out a long post - agree with all of the above.
 
I definitely feel like my horse is wasted. With a competent rider he could be jumping 1.20 or doing medium level dressage. Sadly he is stuck with a total numpty and we seem to have the handbrake stuck 90% of the time. I don't know if he has a comprehension of talent, but he probably would like a rider who can put him in the right place at a jump :o
 
From a breeder's point of view, I would love it if mine went on to have good competitive careers and many commercial breeders expect their youngsters to go on and do well, if they don't it's a good marketing opportunity gone to waste but as long as I can find nice, long term homes for them where they will be cherished, have a lot of fun and not be thrashed around a showground every weekend, then I'm more than happy. I have two young boys waiting for just that type of home right now; one is a super competition pony prospect while the other is a nice hunter/RC type but I think they'd be quite happy just being cherished and much loved; I just need to find those right homes.
 
Well I don't believe horses miss what they have never known (despite a "communicator" telling me my horse was looking forward to going eventing after hearing me talking about it with other liveries :rolleyes: ) but on the other hand when i was pregnant and not riding my mare she would pull me toward the lorry if the ramp was down when we walked past and that did make me feel guilty! (Just to clarify, she HAD actually been eventing by that point lol)

Now, however, it is debatable who is wasting whose talents as the darned beastie keeps having time off for injuries :p
 
I do hate this thought people seem to have.

My boy couldn't care less if he spent the day in the field or a day competing. He is happy, healthy and enjoying his life. We both enjoy our time together, in a no pressure environment. I keep getting comments of 'are you going to show him?' 'when are you getting him out?' ... Personally, I don't care much for competing, I ride because it's a hobby I love, I have a horse to spend time with, build a bond and enjoy riding.

I think I'd snap if someone said he's wasted with me :mad: They are your horse's OP and what you choose to do with them is up to you.

A girl I know is selling her horse she has had since a youngster, backed and brought on herself, all because of the opinion that he's wasted and she can't take him as high as he's capable of... It's her choice of course :rolleyes:

My horse is with me for life and I don't care what we do so long as we are happy, healthy and enjoying our time together :)
 
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