Highflinger
Well-Known Member
If the previous owner is able to come over it may be worth hacking out with her riding and you walking. I do understand that the first hack was awful and has put you off but my new boy was awful for quite a few hacks early on but he settled eventually - rightly or wrongly I dismounted whenever I thought there was danger - it took the pressure off me as I knew I could get off if I didn't feel safe ( am nervous so it didn't take much for me to get off) and I think just walking with him helped build a bond. I do think you need to give him more time to settle as some do freak in a new home. When I think what my boy was like 9 months ago to now - chalk and cheese. The first time he saw another horse cantering in the early days he reared and spun and jogged - now his hacking mate can canter off and he carries on plodding along on the buckle.
Regarding the Pelham another of mine was in a Kimblewick when I bought him as his owner said he could be strong at times - he is now ridden in a rope halter with no bit ( hacking, jumping and cross country)and is never strong - very forward going but stops easily.
Regarding the Pelham another of mine was in a Kimblewick when I bought him as his owner said he could be strong at times - he is now ridden in a rope halter with no bit ( hacking, jumping and cross country)and is never strong - very forward going but stops easily.