dressage_diva
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I have a very hot, sensitive warmblood who is a bit of a worrier about life generally. Whenever he arrives at a venue he is incredibly nervous until I get on him when he chills out.
In fact pretty much as soon as he's plaited up he gets anxious about going competing. As soon as we arrive at a venue he is very unsettled and I had hoped that the more he went out the more relaxed he would be, but that hasn't happened so far. We've tried going to both quiet and busier venues, and he's been back to venues multiple times but he's no more chilled even if he knows the venue! We've tried giving him plenty of time to relax before I get on and the opposite too - getting to venue very late and getting straight on but it makes no difference to him. He's anxious whether I tack him up on the lorry, or tied up by the lorry (I don't do this any more as he panicked and broke loose once). As soon as I get on he is super chilled - he is not nervous at all (you can almost see him breathe a sigh a relief once I'm on!) and he's super brave and chilled in warm up arena and the test arena. After the test he's pretty relaxed and is no longer stressed. I've tried taking him out in the lorry to lessons too but he's still anxious as soon as he arrives. I don't think he's picking up nerves from me (but I am considering getting someone else to take him out instead of me to confirm this).
I'm wondering whether there might be a BD legal calmer which might help him be less anxious when he arrives somewhere (without taking the edge of him when I ride)? He's an absolute sweetheart and I have high hopes for him in Dressage but he's a bit of a worrier about life and I'm sure that given a few years he will start to relax but I'm wondering what I can do in the meantime as I don't like to see him so anxious! I also think the worry is tiring him out as he always seems to tire much quicker when riding him at a venue away from home (he doesn't seem to find the actual travelling stressful - he doesn't sweat up and he stands quietly eating until we arrive somewhere and the lorry stops!).
Any ideas?
In fact pretty much as soon as he's plaited up he gets anxious about going competing. As soon as we arrive at a venue he is very unsettled and I had hoped that the more he went out the more relaxed he would be, but that hasn't happened so far. We've tried going to both quiet and busier venues, and he's been back to venues multiple times but he's no more chilled even if he knows the venue! We've tried giving him plenty of time to relax before I get on and the opposite too - getting to venue very late and getting straight on but it makes no difference to him. He's anxious whether I tack him up on the lorry, or tied up by the lorry (I don't do this any more as he panicked and broke loose once). As soon as I get on he is super chilled - he is not nervous at all (you can almost see him breathe a sigh a relief once I'm on!) and he's super brave and chilled in warm up arena and the test arena. After the test he's pretty relaxed and is no longer stressed. I've tried taking him out in the lorry to lessons too but he's still anxious as soon as he arrives. I don't think he's picking up nerves from me (but I am considering getting someone else to take him out instead of me to confirm this).
I'm wondering whether there might be a BD legal calmer which might help him be less anxious when he arrives somewhere (without taking the edge of him when I ride)? He's an absolute sweetheart and I have high hopes for him in Dressage but he's a bit of a worrier about life and I'm sure that given a few years he will start to relax but I'm wondering what I can do in the meantime as I don't like to see him so anxious! I also think the worry is tiring him out as he always seems to tire much quicker when riding him at a venue away from home (he doesn't seem to find the actual travelling stressful - he doesn't sweat up and he stands quietly eating until we arrive somewhere and the lorry stops!).
Any ideas?