Wagtail
Horse servant
I would maybe try a hanging cheek? The cheek would have a similar effect to a full cheek to help turning and it's now been proven to reduce poll pressure and to be a mild bit. My boy wasn't a baby when I got him but he was incredibly fussy in his mouth and the Myler mullen mouth hanging cheek is by far the best for him. I've found it stays very still in his mouth so he doesn't have much to complain about with it. The curve of the Myler is quite pronounced and the mouthpiece is pretty small in diameter, which is very good for his exceptionally large tongue.If she has a small mouth it would probably be as good for her but for a different reason. Some bitwrap on it would give that softer feel you think she needs without making it too bulky.
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Thank you. I will definitely give that one a try if the one I have on order doesn't do the trick. I do like hanging cheek bits.
