That_midgit_equestrian
Well-Known Member
I thibk he is unbalanced someone did say that and we’ve been working on itI'm not saying it's the only cause, or even the main one, but underlying your issues is a lack of balance for this little cob. He needs to learn to move more efficiently then he won't need to use his head and neck to balance so much. If you're game then the very best way to help him is from the ground, and I'd recommend https://www.wildmagicllc.com/master-class, but you'd also get benefit from a more "fun" (I think doing the very best by your horse, learning about them etc is the best fun you can have, but...) approach such as Jec Ballou 55 Exercises book, great resources out there from Ritter Dressage, Manolo Mendez - they all look at posture, balance, way of going, and long term soundness but they also impact on behaviour and mental well being for the horse too.
For your contact make sure your hands are slightly lifted, and slightly offered forwards, thumbs always on top (so few people seem to be able to maintain this but it's critical) and for me, I like the "flat fingers" approach where you can see your fingernails flat on the palm of your hand, with fingers not bent at the uppermost knuckle.