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Ellz

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i am really sorry but on my yard there are some girls that drive me mad...you can't be in there group unless you are thin and colour coordinated with a pretty pony...i happen to be in this click...unfortunately...but i might have a pretty pony and be colour co-ordinated but i am fat and i am not just saying that because i am a teenage girl i am saying it because i am fat i weigh around 13 and 1/2 stone and although i am not happy with it i dont' care for other peoples opinions on it, these girls sometimes let things slip ad always say to me we would never intentionally pick on you ella we think you're really funny!!so what they are saying is that i make up for the fact that i am not thin in having a really good sence of humour...NICE.i don't think i wato be a s involved with them anynmore, i've got other friends down there and they are really annoying me because theres a girl down there who i feel really sorry for because they won't let her in the 4x4 when we sit in it talking and they pick on her and won't let her in the stupid click just because shes a bit dim and her pony isn't the prettiest...IT'S STUPID! how can i stop hanging around with them as much or tell them hopw i feel without hurting there feelings or causing them to start picking on me??because i will be forced to batter them if they do!!grr! HELP! ella xox
 
Eh? You've just admitted that you are in this clique even though you are not thin, so obviously its NOT just about being thin and having a pretty pony. Maybe its about being able to compete at GP dressage, or possibly being able to shift two and a half stone in between posts...

Its quite simple really, refuse to go along with their nastiness. If they won't let this other girl sit in the 4x4 (and really, how pathetic can you get?), why don't you get out of the car and go and chat to her? Offer to go out and hack with her if she is all on her own, and if the others b*tch about her, change the subject to something a bit more interesting, like ponies !
 
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click (klĭk)
n.
A brief, sharp sound: the click of a door latch.
A mechanical device, such as a pawl, that snaps into position.
Computer Science. An instance of pressing down and releasing a button on a pointing device, such as a mouse.
Linguistics. Any of various implosive stops, such as that of English tsk, produced by raising the back of the tongue to make contact with the palate and simultaneously closing the lips or touching the teeth or alveolar ridge with the tip and sides of the tongue, and found as phonemic consonants especially in the Khoisan and some Bantu languages. Also called suction stop.

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Why don't you start again and tell us the truth about yourself?
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Just what I was thinking....

And id if you are telling the truth they are probably jealous.
 
erm ok well maybe i weigh 15 stone and not 13 and a half... but a girl can dream right??and what does this mean?? :-

And how do you KNOW that the girls to whom Ellz is referring are NOT Khoi San or Bantu? After all, they do seem to converse in clicks

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erm ok well maybe i weigh 15 stone and not 13 and a half... but a girl can dream right??and what does this mean?? :-

And how do you KNOW that the girls to whom Ellz is referring are NOT Khoi San or Bantu? After all, they do seem to converse in clicks

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WHAT THE HECK?

ARE YOU A TROLL?
 
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ok be like that you are all as bad as the people i am trying to hide from.

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why don't you give them what for then and prove them wrong by telling us all about you and your horse?
 
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ok be like that you are all as bad as the people i am trying to hide from.

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Sweetie, the reason that they are probably like that is you appear to be talking crap. have you ever heard of the saying "honesty is the best policy?"

Now, why dont you tell us all about you, your horse, etc...introduce yourself. Whats your horse? How big? How long have you had it for?
 
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Eh? You've just admitted that you are in this clique even though you are not thin, so obviously its NOT just about being thin and having a pretty pony. Maybe its about being able to compete at GP dressage, or possibly being able to shift two and a half stone in between posts...

Its quite simple really, refuse to go along with their nastiness. If they won't let this other girl sit in the 4x4 (and really, how pathetic can you get?), why don't you get out of the car and go and chat to her? Offer to go out and hack with her if she is all on her own, and if the others b*tch about her, change the subject to something a bit more interesting, like ponies !

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Trundle has got it in one! You don't have to go along with them on everything, be your own person and make your own judgements. People that behave as you have described these girls as behaving (sound just like my sister actually, b***) generally have real insecurities of their own, and if they don't then they should have about their stupid catty behaviour and shallow minds
 
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I ASKED FOR HELP NOT CRITISISM!!AND I AM NOT LYING!!!!

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See my above post...

How big is your horse? What breeding? Colour? Who trains you?

We are genuinely interested, just give us some background on you first, or you do open yourself up to critisism!
 
okay, Ellz, you gave it to me:
"ahem??!i weigh 15 stone and i am probably above YOUR game. not to brag or anything but i am at grand prix dressage level and can garuntee that i get a bl**dy good atore everyitme i go out getting placed every time...how old am i??16 how fat am i?quite but it doesn't mean that atleast three stoe of that isn't muscle and i am at the top of my game- THANKS.how rude... >=[ "

so, if you're above my game, tell us. what's your horse/pony's name, who's your trainer. you know nothing about me, but i'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt... show us that you're above my game, as you say.
 
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You have a Grand Prix dressage pony?

Surely if that were the case you wouldn't care what these girls say? After all, you must be the best rider on the yard and have the most well trained pony.

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Terribly sorry but there are no GP dressage pony in the country.
Maybe you own Manitu? He's trained high, But no wait your nake Isnt Sam. Or Peppino, nope not him either!
Dont lie to us, there are too many people on here, who DO know what they are talking about, so tell us the truth and maybe we will offer decent advice that you can use!
 
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