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I used to be decisive, now I'm not so sure...
By the definition of a RTC it was not a Road Accident, as that means that owing to the presence of a motor vehicle on a road an accident occurred where damage/injury was caused to a third party (as in not the car that is on the road, or passengers).
In this case it sounds like there was no damage to your carriage or pony, so that definition is not fulfilled. Therefore no RTC, just damage caused by your pony being "momentarily distracted" meaning you lost control of direction. The car does not have to give you his insurance details, that would only be if you were injured. If you pay for the damage they will not lose their no claims. It is different to an RTC.
TBH, as the car had almost cleared the vehicles and was pulling back in, they had taken the road, and you say that if the pony had not been "momentarily distracted" you would not have hit the car by momentarily losing control, it would seem to me (I believe a "reasonable person") that you are the one with the pony, you are the one with specialist knowledge of what you need as regards space on the road, it sounds like you know horses are flight animals and maybe could have hung back? The car gave room for you, was driving in a normal manner. The car driver does not know the specialist needs of your pony. You have not insinuated that the driver was driving in anything other than a reasonable manner. If the car had left you insufficient room then that would be different. It sound like he was even on his own side of the road?
If it were me I would just pay up. If it was above the excess I would do it through my insurance. If the insurance thought it was the car's fault they would take the mater up.
If I were the car driver I would be livid. Not necessarily by the "momentary distraction" and subsequent loss of control of direction causing damage to my car and worry and inconvenience, but also the unwillingness of the offending party to take responsibility for their mistake.
Accidents happen, that is why we pay insurance. Accidents are less upsetting for all concerned if people are right with each other.
In this case it sounds like there was no damage to your carriage or pony, so that definition is not fulfilled. Therefore no RTC, just damage caused by your pony being "momentarily distracted" meaning you lost control of direction. The car does not have to give you his insurance details, that would only be if you were injured. If you pay for the damage they will not lose their no claims. It is different to an RTC.
TBH, as the car had almost cleared the vehicles and was pulling back in, they had taken the road, and you say that if the pony had not been "momentarily distracted" you would not have hit the car by momentarily losing control, it would seem to me (I believe a "reasonable person") that you are the one with the pony, you are the one with specialist knowledge of what you need as regards space on the road, it sounds like you know horses are flight animals and maybe could have hung back? The car gave room for you, was driving in a normal manner. The car driver does not know the specialist needs of your pony. You have not insinuated that the driver was driving in anything other than a reasonable manner. If the car had left you insufficient room then that would be different. It sound like he was even on his own side of the road?
If it were me I would just pay up. If it was above the excess I would do it through my insurance. If the insurance thought it was the car's fault they would take the mater up.
If I were the car driver I would be livid. Not necessarily by the "momentary distraction" and subsequent loss of control of direction causing damage to my car and worry and inconvenience, but also the unwillingness of the offending party to take responsibility for their mistake.
Accidents happen, that is why we pay insurance. Accidents are less upsetting for all concerned if people are right with each other.