Do you remember the to-do I had with a livery months ago?

[Ranyhyn]

Well just to add some perspective on it, we're now great pals!

It was all very fraught, my horse is horrid in the stable and her horse was a wuss and we were both stressed, so when we first met it was a massive spat.

Then a few days later we sat down and chatted and it turned out her over protectiveness of her horse was well founded - she'd lost a horse recently. And my aggro ness was too (stressy mare I am) and we put it to bed.

She helped me loads over winter and I return the favour by doing her stable and she's almost become a surrogate Mum - she chides me for working too much overtime and letting myself be stressed...

I just wanted to say to those of you suffering with liveries etc - its mean't to be fun and enjoyable - so where possible, bury the hatchett, apologise (even if you don't think you are in the wrong) and create a better atmosphere.

It can work out

 

[Honey08]

Thats really good, and what a sensible post!

 

[ISHmad]

Reminds me of someone I used to work with and couldn't stand. Can't remember how we finally made it up but we've been friends for practically 25 years now...

Good for you Kitsune, other than matters of life and death most things are not worth stressing over. Although we all do of course.

 

[Keltic]

What a lovely post. Well done for making the effort to talk to each other it really proves the saying "its good to talk"!

 

[alwaysbroke]

'Like'

 

[Chestnut mare]

That's good . That inspired me as bit. having some issues with a girl at work and we had a word on Friday so hopefully will have a better week next week now air has been cleared. I hope x

 

[maletto]

That's so nice!

I find it so hard to not hold grudges - you are a better woman than I am!!

 

[3Beasties]

Lovely post, glad you have sorted things out