horsesncats
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Disclaimer: I have owned my horse for 5 years but I am a very novice owner hence posting here...
Bit of background on her 'normal' personality: my mare is 10yo and is (generally) an angel. Not spooky, very chill. I can lead her to the field with an umbrella over our heads. Loves people. Is forward at times but is generally a chill ride, and enjoys it for the most part. curious about what I am doing and would watch me all the time (not anxious). whinnies at me.
She's always been on full livery and that's part of the reason I've remained a novice in ownership. Other than that, she's very easy so I never had to learn much. Obviously, she can play up but it was never anything truly awful.
Well, until a couple of months ago. Long story short, due to the antics of the yard owner (aghhhhhh), I had to put her onto working livery at the same place where the horses are ridden 2-5 hours a day unless owner is coming down (which is only a set number of days). I would have moved her but I am leaving the area soon (no date but in a few months), so didn't want to move her twice within a fairly tight period of time.
Now, she nips. Pins her ears back if you go up to her. Hates being ridden. Looks grumpy. No interest in anything. Is tense all the time. Spookier and on edge. I think she hates me, sadly.
Its like someone stole my horse and left me with this one.
I feel terribly guilty. I know working livery works for some, and other working livery places would have better practices than the place im at (they customers are beginners pretty much)
I also am aware that there could be an underlying issue, and I will call out the vet, don't worry. But, it matches perfectly with when the working livery contract started.
Can someone give some insight and wisdom ( as well as reassure me that she'll go back to normal when I move her to a full livery yard in my new area...)
Bit of background on her 'normal' personality: my mare is 10yo and is (generally) an angel. Not spooky, very chill. I can lead her to the field with an umbrella over our heads. Loves people. Is forward at times but is generally a chill ride, and enjoys it for the most part. curious about what I am doing and would watch me all the time (not anxious). whinnies at me.
She's always been on full livery and that's part of the reason I've remained a novice in ownership. Other than that, she's very easy so I never had to learn much. Obviously, she can play up but it was never anything truly awful.
Well, until a couple of months ago. Long story short, due to the antics of the yard owner (aghhhhhh), I had to put her onto working livery at the same place where the horses are ridden 2-5 hours a day unless owner is coming down (which is only a set number of days). I would have moved her but I am leaving the area soon (no date but in a few months), so didn't want to move her twice within a fairly tight period of time.
Now, she nips. Pins her ears back if you go up to her. Hates being ridden. Looks grumpy. No interest in anything. Is tense all the time. Spookier and on edge. I think she hates me, sadly.
Its like someone stole my horse and left me with this one.
I feel terribly guilty. I know working livery works for some, and other working livery places would have better practices than the place im at (they customers are beginners pretty much)
I also am aware that there could be an underlying issue, and I will call out the vet, don't worry. But, it matches perfectly with when the working livery contract started.
Can someone give some insight and wisdom ( as well as reassure me that she'll go back to normal when I move her to a full livery yard in my new area...)