LaurenBay
Well-Known Member
I must be a very bad mummy..
Yesterday when she was eating her dinner, I picked a thistle out of her ear!
Yesterday when she was eating her dinner, I picked a thistle out of her ear!
ditto
actually i often use food as a distraction - yesterday she ate whilst i cleaned a small scuff on her fetlock - if i'd tried to do it when she wasnt distracted she'd be certain it was a massive gauge out of her and i was trying to kill her
so food = distraction = no fuss![]()
OK - I am VERY strict and insist that they do as they are told. I tell them 'over' they move, 'back' they reverse etc. Until recently I worked on a professional basis with racehorses so I am aware of manners and horse management. I keep my horses at home so he isn't a threat to anyone. The horse was in training for about 6 years and it's just one of those things he does. He wouldn't lunge at you to bite but yes he kicks and he double barrels so don't stand behind him and don't mess with him when he eats. Simple really! As I said if you are confident with him all is well. I won't get involved with my views on animal behavourists![]()
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How many of the racehorses you dealt with daily were 'handled' whilst being fed, Aces_High?
Funny that![]()
It should be possible to do this, I agree. You don't want a horse to view you as a threat while he is eating. This is the key to hassle-free feed times, whether or not you choose to do things with or around your horse.I don't tease my horse whilst eating (and certainly not tease him with food, or use 'taking food away' to prove dominance) but I expect them all to let me do stuff to them whilst eating, just as they would whilst standing tied up.
I wouldn't say "never". Subordinate horses do sometimes kick out at more dominant horses in self-defence if they feel threatened and are unable to move away.A horse would never threaten to or even actually kick out at a more dominate horse nearby whilst eating it's dinner, so I don't see why it should do it to me. They only chase off lower ranking horses who pester them whilst eating and I don't class as lower ranking.
Or it could simply be that they are expressing annoyance or anxiety in anticipation of the person interrupting their eating of high value food. They need to learn that you aren't a threat in any sense. In my opinion, they don't need a lesson in "respect" or be taught to accept the person meekly/grudgingly "or else". One doesn't make oneself less of a threat to horses by threatening them! Choosing the latter route risks merely suppressing aggression which may then reappear unpredictably at some point. If the horse is truly comfortable, there is no danger of that happening.I suspect those horses who are agressive whilst eating are finally showing their true thoughts on humans and where they therefore think they stand in the pecking order.
You know your friend's horse better than I do, of course. However, it is possible that he stands back from you either because he is less certain (and therefore more fearful) of you, or because he has learned to do that on previous occasions. Or maybe his telling your friend to bugger off is something he's learned almost as a ritual (fixed pattern) at feed time with this specific person - and this pattern is broken simply by the fact that you are someone else. My I respectfully suggest that it may not have anything to do with respect, despite looking respectful.Interestingly my friend has an older horse who has naff all respect for her (she's a rather too nicely nicely to him) but he goes along with everything she asks because he's a nice old soul. Except at feeding time, when he tells her to bugger off in no uncertain terms. However he NEVER does that to me (from whom he's had a couple of tellings off) and in fact stands back respectfully to let me take his dinner away (which I've never done, he's just willing to let me)
Animals and celebrities should always be left alone to eat!