Bernster
Well-Known Member
Whilst this isn’t strictly C&T, it is a response to the tension thread that is busily spiralling out of control on here, and which has made me think about forums, social media and debate generally.
I keep imagining what it would be like in real life 🤔. I and a few others would have ventured in, tried to mediate a bit, said ‘alright now everyone, calm down’ and then I’d have shrugged my shoulders and wandered off muttering under my breath. Would others have stayed in there, pointy fingers and hand gestures at the ready? Some bystanders would have come over, interested in what was going on, tried to engage in debate, and then got a mince pie in the face. And, horrible as it sounds, maybe some people are getting upset and crying, and feeling picked on, and that makes me sad to think about.
On a more general note, what is it about social media that brings out such odd behaviour? And why do people troll, I never get that. But like someone else has said, it’s like picking a scab, I can’t help going back to that thread for another look.
And on a happier note, it is true that there is lots to like about this forum, and we shouldn’t forget how positive and supportive it can be. So everyone I hope you all enjoy your lovely horses and I wish you all a healthy and happy christmas! 🎄ðŸŽðŸŽ‰
I keep imagining what it would be like in real life 🤔. I and a few others would have ventured in, tried to mediate a bit, said ‘alright now everyone, calm down’ and then I’d have shrugged my shoulders and wandered off muttering under my breath. Would others have stayed in there, pointy fingers and hand gestures at the ready? Some bystanders would have come over, interested in what was going on, tried to engage in debate, and then got a mince pie in the face. And, horrible as it sounds, maybe some people are getting upset and crying, and feeling picked on, and that makes me sad to think about.
On a more general note, what is it about social media that brings out such odd behaviour? And why do people troll, I never get that. But like someone else has said, it’s like picking a scab, I can’t help going back to that thread for another look.
And on a happier note, it is true that there is lots to like about this forum, and we shouldn’t forget how positive and supportive it can be. So everyone I hope you all enjoy your lovely horses and I wish you all a healthy and happy christmas! 🎄ðŸŽðŸŽ‰