Booboos
Well-Known Member
But i think that's my point. We can pull people to pieces for all sorts of choices they make in their life. I for one can never understand why anyone would choose to smoke, it's disgusting, it's expensive and inevitably it will probably kill you. But i don't get on my high horse about it when others choose to.
Smoking is a personal choice, and it's accepted by most people, even though it's a bigger known killer than not wearing a hat whilst riding.
So why do people get so upset about riding without a hat, but not smoking?
We do restrict smoking in ways that have to do with making an impression on others. For example, advertising for smoking is not allowed on TV, TV shows and films avoid showing people smoke especially in a gramorous, positive light, smoking is heavily taxed to discourage people from doing so, loads of money is spent on educating young people about the dangers of smoking in the hope they will chose not to smoke, etc. So we both think that others have a choice on whether to smoke or not and we say they are wrong to chose to smoke and take steps to discourage them from doing so.
Saying that someone has a choice, is not tantamount to accepting that any choice they make is as good as any other. Some choices are less wise than others and, inevitably, this will be pointed out. In some circumstances, e.g. from one friend to another, we expect other people to point out our unwise choices and they would be remiss if they didn't do so.