Pattie
Well-Known Member
It seems that what ever you do I appear to disagree with you, but it's either a case of speak-up or shut-up! I hope that you understand that I'm in your corner though! :redface3::wink3: Here goes!:
As you're finding 'bonding' to be difficult it may be because you're sending out mixed messages. Playing and discipline when they're simultaneous (or near enough) may work with some dogs, but it seems not with yours. It's all new to him (or was 7 weeks ago) and by his lack of bowel control, by your descriptions of his conduct, which are well described, I'm again, and for the last time going to suggest that rather than trying to be his friend, that you organise the 'pack' hierarchy and when he's calm and well mannered, so you reward that with a simple acceptance of him. Perhaps try it for a coupe of days, and see how things go!
Good Luck, whatever you decide.
Alec.
No, I have genuinely come on here for some advice for my sake, but also for the little man. I play with him also to stimulate him mentally as the vet said he needed a lot of this, but what you're saying does make sense. I can't transfer his play onto the walk as he gets distracted with scents and dogs so I'm not building up to such distraction with a toy, he loves treats, but these also don't work on a walk. What would simple acceptance of him look like? He's bouncing his ball at me now. He also follows me everywhere, I don't know if he's being cute, anxious or just mad!