BenvardenRach2
Well-Known Member
Hi everyone,
A lot of you know about my lovely little pony having to cross the rainbow bridge highly unexpectedly just over 2 weeks ago..
Rocky was very distressed to start with, they shared a small barn so when for the first 2 days he was in a huge panic whenever he was in without her, he kept looking at her stable, looking at me, looking out the door and shrieking
A new pony has moved into the barn to keep Rocky company in the nights (he comes in every evening to have a break from the hugely lush grass at our place, he puts on weight just by looking at)
He has been behaving completely differently since she passed.
He was a very highly strung and stressy dude in the stable, never very affectionate didn't appreciate cuddles and wouldn't stand still for awfully long for you to give him a good flick over with the brush - a proper teenage boy!!!
Now, he just shuts off when I put him in the barn, his head is down, his mind seems to be elsewhere. Even if I bring him in a while before the pony and he's in there on his own, previously he would be box walking and shouting to the rooftops but now he couldn't be bothered to do all that.
The food obsessed pony doesn't seem so much of a food lover anymore, he will pick at his dinner, have a little munch of a haynet but otherwise just look so sad... he was on this grass before she died and he would happily polish of his dinner and haynet!
He lets me snuggle him and make a big fuss of him, oh and stands to be groomed! Is this because he can sense I'm upset too and he is comforting me or is he in that horrible state of mind where he cannot be bothered to put up a fight?
To ride he has been fine, better than he was really.. he's really listening to me and seems to want to please rather than having little strops and being a spook tastic pony.
In the field he seems happy enough he's eating fine and settled.
I love my yard and barn, at the moment there are no other stables free outside of the barn but I am wondering whether I should move him out of the barn when one becomes available so he doesn't have to look at her empty stable..
Am I just over reacting? It's only been 2 weeks, it's still raw to both of us.
I am just so worried abut him, I guess I'm a bit more of a worrier now
A complimentary photo of my lovely boy this morning after a nice ride
Thanks,
Em
A lot of you know about my lovely little pony having to cross the rainbow bridge highly unexpectedly just over 2 weeks ago..
Rocky was very distressed to start with, they shared a small barn so when for the first 2 days he was in a huge panic whenever he was in without her, he kept looking at her stable, looking at me, looking out the door and shrieking
A new pony has moved into the barn to keep Rocky company in the nights (he comes in every evening to have a break from the hugely lush grass at our place, he puts on weight just by looking at)
He has been behaving completely differently since she passed.
He was a very highly strung and stressy dude in the stable, never very affectionate didn't appreciate cuddles and wouldn't stand still for awfully long for you to give him a good flick over with the brush - a proper teenage boy!!!
Now, he just shuts off when I put him in the barn, his head is down, his mind seems to be elsewhere. Even if I bring him in a while before the pony and he's in there on his own, previously he would be box walking and shouting to the rooftops but now he couldn't be bothered to do all that.
The food obsessed pony doesn't seem so much of a food lover anymore, he will pick at his dinner, have a little munch of a haynet but otherwise just look so sad... he was on this grass before she died and he would happily polish of his dinner and haynet!
He lets me snuggle him and make a big fuss of him, oh and stands to be groomed! Is this because he can sense I'm upset too and he is comforting me or is he in that horrible state of mind where he cannot be bothered to put up a fight?
To ride he has been fine, better than he was really.. he's really listening to me and seems to want to please rather than having little strops and being a spook tastic pony.
In the field he seems happy enough he's eating fine and settled.
I love my yard and barn, at the moment there are no other stables free outside of the barn but I am wondering whether I should move him out of the barn when one becomes available so he doesn't have to look at her empty stable..
Am I just over reacting? It's only been 2 weeks, it's still raw to both of us.
I am just so worried abut him, I guess I'm a bit more of a worrier now
A complimentary photo of my lovely boy this morning after a nice ride
Thanks,
Em
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