FelixPatches
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I have a 15.1hh 6yr old Welsh/Tb gelding. He is a bright horse, with lots of attitude, cheeky, safe but needs to be kept occupied. I've had him for 1.5 years, and in all that time he has never really accepted the contact. I think he may have had that problem before I got him, as he came with a grackle plus I know sometimes the previous owner used a hackamore on him (though he was started really well). I know some (a lot?!) of it is down to my contact issues; not following the movement, not being supple enough in my elbows and through my pelvis, snatching back etc, and I am working so hard to try to correct that. He's had his teeth checked and sees a physio regularly, his saddle is fine too. He's turned out though the day and I try to make things varied, hacking and schooling, plus my trainer lunges him once a week. He constantly opens and closes his mouth and also tries to get his tongue over the bit. He will throw his head about too. I've tried various nosebands, and a Micklem and he hates them all (plus I don't like strapping him in). I've tried different bits and currently am using a Neuscheule, on the advice of a bitting expert (just over phone, not seen him), plus I've tried using bit butter. He hates that bit less than any of the others. He has now started leaning on my hands, which I try to correct with transitions and flexing. I get regular lessons. So far as I can tell he is sound (and my physio is very good and sees him each month so even if I didn't notice, she would). I use an Equilibrium massage matt on him a couple of times a week, use a magnetic rug, and do in hand stretches. Over the last 6 months he has become funny about taking right canter, in right canter he motorbikes and bears down on me though that is improving. We both now have a mental block about right canter, though when I ride the transition correctly he does take the correct lead. Does anyone have any suggestions? I'm so worried, hate to think he could be in pain (though tbh he does this even in walk on a loose rein). For a while he would not go forward but this has now improved, and he is forward thinking so I think that was just a phase. I worry about things like eg kissing spines, sacroiliac problems (but I've always worried about the ponies!). When we do dressage tests, the comments are rushed, needs to relax mentally, unsteady contact. I blame myself mainly and am at point where feel I need to sell him because I am spoiling him. Any ideas very gratefully received.