RIDMagic
Well-Known Member
So I'm hoping for some advice. I have a 4 year old mare who can be a little lazy in the school. Not dead to the leg, but not moving forward with as much impulsion as she should. I have a lovely instructor who is very sympathetic and not a whips and spurs person, which is great for me.
In my lessons, I am working on taking up the rein contact. Ive always been terrible for having 'washing line reins', as I hate to feel as though I'm pulling on the mouth. The problem is that although my instructor assures me I am simply taking up a contact, I honestly feel like Im really pulling on my horses mouth. I know it should feel like I have an elastic contact, but it really doesnt. If I give away the reins completely, my horse just goes round with her head stuck out in front of her (in fact she does that anyway, but if I hold a stronger contact and gently sponge the outside rein then she starts dropping her head, albeit inconsistently atm). I do ride with quite bulky rubber reins atm (only because they came with the bridle); I wonder if I was to buy some smaller leather reins it might make a difference to how it feels.
If I watch Carl Hester schooling his horses, he doesnt hold a strong contact at all, in fact his reins are often clearly relaxed, yet his horses work in a lovely outline. Does this come through years of the horse learning to carry itself, then it becomes a natural position? My instructor did say that with a young horse, you often have to begin with a stronger contact in order for them to learn how to carry themselves and where their head should be. So I guess if I can just get my horse going on the bit then in time she will become softer?
Any advice would be appreciated.
In my lessons, I am working on taking up the rein contact. Ive always been terrible for having 'washing line reins', as I hate to feel as though I'm pulling on the mouth. The problem is that although my instructor assures me I am simply taking up a contact, I honestly feel like Im really pulling on my horses mouth. I know it should feel like I have an elastic contact, but it really doesnt. If I give away the reins completely, my horse just goes round with her head stuck out in front of her (in fact she does that anyway, but if I hold a stronger contact and gently sponge the outside rein then she starts dropping her head, albeit inconsistently atm). I do ride with quite bulky rubber reins atm (only because they came with the bridle); I wonder if I was to buy some smaller leather reins it might make a difference to how it feels.
If I watch Carl Hester schooling his horses, he doesnt hold a strong contact at all, in fact his reins are often clearly relaxed, yet his horses work in a lovely outline. Does this come through years of the horse learning to carry itself, then it becomes a natural position? My instructor did say that with a young horse, you often have to begin with a stronger contact in order for them to learn how to carry themselves and where their head should be. So I guess if I can just get my horse going on the bit then in time she will become softer?
Any advice would be appreciated.