Ibblebibble
Well-Known Member
does it bother you if someone else feeds your horse, turns them out if they get to the yard before you, mucks out your stables if they get to the yard and they're not done?
i know my friend who keeps her pony with my horses is just trying to be helpful but I keep finding my inner voice saying ' my horses I'll do them my way in my time' i think i may be a little possesive
i know i'm struggling mood wise at the moment and can over react but how would this make you feel? big mare was a bit stressy tonight because they were ploughing the field behind the yard, last night they were muckspreading so OH went up and checked on her as he was over that way, mentioned it to friend tonight and she said awww i'm out tonight I'll probably drive by and check on her! made me feel a little bit like 'erm really?!' she didnt know what weaving was or why she does it until i explained so how exactly would se be able to guage how stressed my girl is!! and then thought god what a biatch i am
so would you be feeling 'hey back off ' or would you just put your feet up and leave her to it?
i know my friend who keeps her pony with my horses is just trying to be helpful but I keep finding my inner voice saying ' my horses I'll do them my way in my time' i think i may be a little possesive
i know i'm struggling mood wise at the moment and can over react but how would this make you feel? big mare was a bit stressy tonight because they were ploughing the field behind the yard, last night they were muckspreading so OH went up and checked on her as he was over that way, mentioned it to friend tonight and she said awww i'm out tonight I'll probably drive by and check on her! made me feel a little bit like 'erm really?!' she didnt know what weaving was or why she does it until i explained so how exactly would se be able to guage how stressed my girl is!! and then thought god what a biatch i am
so would you be feeling 'hey back off ' or would you just put your feet up and leave her to it?