indie999
Well-Known Member
I'm so sorry for both your losses. I really think that time is a great healer. I lost my old boy two years ago, and it was my decision to have him PTS which is a lot different to loosing a horse suddenly or in tragic circumstances.
Time is a great healer, and I still miss him now, some days more than others. I have lots of photos of him around the horse and great memories I can hold onto. Thinking of you.
I agree with this and all the other similars. We are all agreeable that the pain will lessen. I was the same. It literally took me weeks for the sadness to lift. Bereavement does put things into perspective of what is important in life. Before losing my horse I couldnt understand why tough horse people were so down for weeks. But now I do. It was a total shock to me that losing my horse affected me so much. BUT I often remind myself he had a good home, was loved and cared for. Not like some animals. 8 months on I still havent got another but would like to. Everyone kept telling me oh you need another. I just dont think you can replace one for another and they are a big part of our lives. I hope you can find comfort in the support on here and look after yourself properly. You cant hide from the emotions and dont be hard on yourself. I found this forum so helpful(& I dont do facebook etc ). So many of us have been in this situation and do understand. Big hugsx. Sorry to ramble but this just makes me remember what I was like too.