TarrSteps
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I am so going to make the OP take up M&M showing. . . . *evil cackling*
I take it I am missing something ?I am so going to make the OP take up M&M showing. . . . *evil cackling*
No everyone thinks natives are sensible and safe! My ISH is far more sensible than sisters native. Don't be tempted by Tarrsteps Lol.
It won't help with your current horses, but what about looking into driving? You might find it easier physically than riding, provided you have good helpers around you, and if that was the case then you could start competing in driving. Is there anyone near you that could give you a taster? The advantage is that you could get a relatively small pony but still be very competitive when you are ready, so less to handle on a day to day basis but able to take you where you want to go. Is it worth a thought?
I don't have any support so have to do all myself
Like Sunday I am hoping to take her showing. I will have to get her bathed and ready. Load and drive her and all the kit. I will be alone
Come home and do everything again
It may well take me a week to recover
Or I could wake up Sunday too poorly to go
I am not yet ready to share her and can't afford to pay for help either
I didn't mean this to be a poor me post. More I know how difficult it can be!!
Could you find a horseless, enthusiastic teenager/student to help you at shows? As a horseless student with very little money, I have done things like this over the past couple of years in order to be around horses. I enjoy going to shows as "groom" as well. It was also a good way for me to build horsey contacts, so if there was ever someone who needed a rider, it meant I could sometimes pick up a ride, but I did not expect riding in exchange for my time.
I know this isn't always possible, especially if your horse isn't the easiest to handle, but it might be worth looking into? It may not be easy to find someone with much experience, but provided they are safe around your horse they might be some help with things you find difficult, and would be greatful for the experience?
Lyn - Aah i see, yes rather big. However if you can manage even a small ride on a more difficult horse perhaps an easier mount would allow you to go for longer? I may be talking rubbish here but I know I exert more energy trying to control my nutter than I do on my bosses school mistress...
My mum has quite bad Fibromyalgia so I see how doing too much affects her but I do think if she had a more positive outlook it would at least help her feel more happy in herself; instead she gets down because she used to ride with me and be able to do so much more, it's really awful to watch
Um, the OP doesn't have chronic fatigue syndrome, or fybromyalgia for that matter . . . . .
I am aware of that Tarrsteps, my point was that the all the debilitation that the OP mentions is part of these syndromes also, and can cause all the problems she mentions. What the label for any specific disability is, is of no importance
and that attitude is everything no matter what the cause of the actual symptoms? I supplied the link in the hope that she might see something in that which can enable her to rethink her attitude to her physical problems and illness.