In Bits,Why are people so cruel and horrid !!

Some people are just awful. You just have to ignore them and pity their lowly existence. Reading your posts on here is inspirational, all the things you have achieved whilst there have been massive problems sent your way. Stupid idiots like that will never amount to anything, pity them, laugh at them and most importantly tell them to go ******* themselves!
 
Wow it did loads of stars hiding my swearing!! It's important to know (so you can say it back to the idiots) it was the 'f' one lol :)
 
******* them...morons.

Your mare is sooo beautiful. I do like a nice shiny black horse. You stick with your neddy, she sounds like she looks after you xxx
 
Hold your head high, my love. You are worth a million of these inadequate morons, who , quite frankly, haven't the brains to think of anything else better to do. I know it hurts, as I too, have a physical problem, but just know you are better than them. I admire your courage. You and your horse are absolutely stunning, those are wonderful pictures and you should be so proud of yourself and your horse. That's the wonderful thing about animals, they are not judgemental. She loves you for what you are. Be proud, and hold your head up high. You are always going to come out on top. You are the brave one, whilst they are always going to be stupid and uneducated. There are always going to be people like this in the world, but try to ignore them, they really are not worth the heartache, really they're not. I know too well, its easier said than done, but you do have the strength of character to overcome it. You have proved that by getting back on your horse. Be strong, lots of hugs xx
 
Please please do not listen to absolute pricks like that , to me and everyone on this site
You and many other people who lose legs , arms and have any other disability are inspirational to us !!!
And for many people who don't suffer with any disabilitys but have bad days , we only have to look and speak to people like your self to realise how lucky we really are !!!
People that are like that are not even worth a piece a paper and should be something that should be on the bottom of our shoes , do you know what the bestist revenge is , is sweet success , go out live your life be successful and don't let your disability stop you !!!
 
You don't have to suffer this treatment, its verbal abuse and should be reported to the police (I am hoping it was oiks outside the shop and not the shop!)

This is the same as racist comments - making cruel comments on the basis of appearance. The police are generally quite tough on this sort of thing.
 
Fantastic pictures - I have a strong feeling that anyone who really knows you, actually sees you as the person in these pictures - a beautifully presented, very able rider with a stunning smile!
 
Totally and utterly disgraceful! So sorry you have to endure this abuse, you are an incredibly brave lady, getting on with life, doing your best not to feel sorry for yourself and like everyone else reading this you have my total admiration for your positivity. Feel free to vent and moan whenever you need to, that is what we are here for :-) As someone else posted, I too think you should turn around and say 'I have had my leg amputated, grow up' and hopefully shock them into silence, or maybe even an apology? Then try and rise above it, don't let these imbeciles mess up your life, you are so much better than them, and braver and stronger than most of us with our petty moans. Chin up girlie, you got such a lot to be proud of yourself for xx
 
Hello EbonyAllen,
I just read your post and looked at the wonderful photographs of you and the gorgeous Ebony and I just wanted to write and tell you what an amazing inspiration you are!
To have overcome what you have and to be still riding and getting on with your life it truely heartwarming.
You look to have an amazing bond with Ebony and that is more important that the nasty comments some insignificant people have made about you. So when you hear comments like that think of her - people like that are incapable of having what you have so you have have a secret smile and ignor them.
And deep down do you really need care what others think of you anyway - you are a far better person than any of them. Chin up and be very proud of your achievements.
 
You get morons like that, it's a real pain. I get yelled at in the street for having red hair by little boys who think it's funny to make crude comments... I tend to tell them to come back and see me when their balls drop these days. I don't blame you for being upset, it is not nice at all:( It's not you that they're picking on though, they'd be exactly the same with anyone... it's not personal is what I mean, it's their problem and not yours. If it wasn't you, it would be a ginger like me, someone with glasses, someone who's tall, someone who's short... these morons just have nothing better to do with their time.

You are inspirational, and worth ten of each and every one of the pricks that has upset you.:)
 
Thanks for posting your photos - Ebony is gorgeous and you are so smartly turned out. For some reason they made me fill up, I suppose it's just the fact that you have come so far and horses are such understanding generous creatures, they don't judge but treat you with the respect you deserve.
 
I admire you for what you have achieved. Don't let the barstewards get you down - they are worthless pieces of ****.


Lovely photos by the way. I don't have a single rosette to my name. Well done you!
 
What horrible b@st@rds. I actually want to go up there now and tear a good few stripes off them. Scum like that I think need a reality check and need to learn to have some respect for other people around them. I no longer believe the blame it on the parents attitude. Yes they are to partly blame but every human knows treat how you'd wish to be treated yourself. No excuses if you parents didn't teach you please and thank you. You know it's right so bl00dy well use it. Grrrrrr.....

Hold your head up high and remember that you are 1,000,000 times better than they will ever be. Thinking of you and we'd like some new updates with how you are getting on with your horse.

God this has really riled me.
 
They do not deserve one second of your thoughts worthless ignorant waste's of space, you are an amazing courageous person, I am in awe of your achievements.

Have a hug from a stranger who thinks you’re amazing
 
M_G said:
I am totally speechless... Who on earth do these people think they are?

You have been through so much & gotten so far when others (me included) would have given up.. I can only hope karma will come round and bite them on the ass (((()))) x
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This says it all for me. It's hard to rise above horrid comments but you must, you are better than these people. Bullies are the cowards, you are the strong one. xxxxxx
 
God it is truly awful this world what sad pathetic people though! I know its alright for me to say but please don't listen to them, I don't know everything about your story but it sounds as though you are very brave and a wonderful kind person :)

xxxxx
 
I know its hard, but these people really aren't worth getting upset over.
You are an inspiration to alot of people, on here, and i expect in "real " life.
I've worked on a ward with amputees, and I know the problems that amputees face, so for you to overcome them, and ride your beautiful horse is amazing.
Its a sad thing to say, but I don't expect anyone will be inspired, or look up to the idiots that said those things to you. What pathetic lives they must have.
Kx
 
Thought you might like a little update here, today I am going down the lane to the Farm and who should I see on a cycle coming up the road, one of the little T...s that shouted the abuse at me all on his own. I shot down the lane towards him then pulled up with him tightly in the hedge put the window down and just glared at him, thought to myself but did not say it Whos sh......g theirselves now then !! He had nowhere to go and of course the Wide Mouth Frog had gone very quiet, after a short time I just drove off down the road thinking be the bigger person, can't tell you how hard that was, but if I had lost it I would have been just as bad as there were. Did make me feel a bit better, once again thanks for all your very kind support :) :)
 
Oh dear Ebony, I really pity them.

I do not have any pity for you though because...

You are fantastic, you have over come soo much, you have over come a horrid disability, over come your nerves, got on with you life. Been to shows and had success, been gracefully in defeat and above all have had determination xxx

You are amazing, and I admire you, do NOT let those idiots pit doubt in your head.

Xxxx
 
Daisydo said:
Oh dear Ebony, I really pity them.

I do not have any pity for you though because...

You are fantastic, you have over come soo much, you have over come a horrid disability, over come your nerves, got on with you life. Been to shows and had success, been gracefully in defeat and above all have had determination xxx

You are amazing, and I admire you, do NOT let those idiots pit doubt in your head.

Xxxx
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Well I was going to write something similar, but I think Daisydo has said everything that I just couldn't quite put into words.
Keep your chin up, be proud and don't let the barstewards drive you down!
xx
 
You are an amazing inspiration to all on here...what ***** :mad::mad::mad:....we will whoop there arses for you....[a polite version of my feelings towards the knob heads....]

Always love seeing pictures of you and Miss Ebony....you are a true partnership xxx Big hugs hunni xxx
 
QUOTE=ebonyallen;10086647]Thought you might like a little update here, today I am going down the lane to the Farm and who should I see on a cycle coming up the road, one of the little T...s that shouted the abuse at me all on his own. I shot down the lane towards him then pulled up with him tightly in the hedge put the window down and just glared at him, thought to myself but did not say it Whos sh......g theirselves now then !! He had nowhere to go and of course the Wide Mouth Frog had gone very quiet, after a short time I just drove off down the road thinking be the bigger person, can't tell you how hard that was, but if I had lost it I would have been just as bad as there were. Did make me feel a bit better, once again thanks for all your very kind support :) :)[/QUOTE

You see! Sheep need to be in a herd otherwise they just don't feel brave!
 
I'm so sorry this wonker upset you. It must have been a horrible moment, but if it's any consolation I promise you anyone else who was around wasn't looking at you and thinking 'hmmm, HAS she sh&t herself?' - they were looking at him and wondering what was wrong with him!

Some people are just stupid around a disability, without meaning to be cruel, and then you get wonkers like that man who are either just nasty people or have a mental problem.

I was out in the high street the other day and a couple of women were walking in front of me chatting. One kept making quite loud involuntary noises. There was a group of men over the road and one of them started imitating the noises and they were all laughing. Honestly, everyone around was looking at those men with a 'what the hell are you doing' expression on their faces, not the the woman. I think we were all surprised as these were grown men in late 20s/30s. I wish I'd said something to them now but anyway, the two women just ignored them and carried on with dignity, and the men were the ones who looked like fools.

Glad you got your own back!
 
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Thought you might like a little update here, today I am going down the lane to the Farm and who should I see on a cycle coming up the road, one of the little T...s that shouted the abuse at me all on his own. I shot down the lane towards him then pulled up with him tightly in the hedge put the window down and just glared at him, thought to myself but did not say it Whos sh......g theirselves now then !! He had nowhere to go and of course the Wide Mouth Frog had gone very quiet, after a short time I just drove off down the road thinking be the bigger person, can't tell you how hard that was, but if I had lost it I would have been just as bad as there were. Did make me feel a bit better, once again thanks for all your very kind support :) :)
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I sincerely hope he'll think before he opens his maw in future - alas unless the 2 brain cells that occupy his cranium manage to work together, it may never happen.

You have come through so much and have a great relationship with Ebony - ignore these small minded twunts, they aren't worth it, you are obviously a far far better person than they could ever be.

Keep smiling - and here's to you - you're an inspiration :D
 
Don't worry Ebony, these morons are the result of in-breeding, you can be sure of that. I have psoriasis on my legs and you wouldn't believe how many people think it is perfectly acceptable to point it out to me and ask what it is. Don't they think it is bad enough that I have to live with it every day? If it is someone I know I tell them what it is, but if it is a stranger (yes, they do stick their noses in quite brazenly) I tell them its ringworm and very hard to get rid of, and watch them make themselves scarce PDQ :) These smartarses don't like a public dose of their own medicine in my experience. One time I was walking down a shopping street in my jods and some single-celled amoeba shouted to me that I could come and ride him anytime. Without stopping to think I bellowed back (half the area must have heard it) that I only rode things that had a d**k big enough to see without a magnifying glass. I didn't care, no-one knew me so I had no reputation to lose. Needless to say he scuttled off and I chalked up a 1 - nil win. Ha!
 
How sad that they even thought to make horrid comments like that. I once read 'The Invitation' by Oriah Mountain Dreamer and in it there were meditation exercises at the end of each chapter.

One that I actually used involved thinking of the person who had hurt you, concentrating on them hard and thinking hard about their life and how it might have made them think/do such things. Eventually, you realise why they are the way they are and the author suggests 'pulling them close' and placing them in your heart. In a non-fluffy way she was trying to say that these people haven't known love, or success, or reward and 'pulling them close' was accepting why they did those things and showing them pity. I found it very useful and a few people have escaped a punch thanks to it!!
 
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