Flicker
Well-Known Member
My friend's trainer is very, very good. I used to use her with my old horse and the only reason I changed is because my loan horse's owner has asked me to use the trainer he's had for years.
However, my friend's trainer arrives at lessons with a side-kick in tow who has more or less latched onto her and now seems to be 'part of the package'. The side-kick never asks if she can watch the lesson, she just sits herself down. Once, when another livery was about to start a lesson on her youngster, the side-kick said, 'oh I've been looking forward to watching this!'
My friend invited me to watch one of her lessons, and I sat with the side-kick, who proceeded to not only critique my friend's riding, but also the riding of some of the other pupils the trainer had taught recently. And not in a constructive way either! I was quite shocked.
Having an audience in my lessons has never bothered me, however my friend is having real trouble with her horse at the moment, and the last thing she needs is Little Miss Schadenfreude sitting in the corner lapping it all up to relay to everyone else later.
She's not sure whether she should say something - she doesn't want to come across as all diva-ish and possibly fall out with her trainer (who clearly sees some value in this relationship). I think it is unprofessional, but wondered on others' thoughts.
However, my friend's trainer arrives at lessons with a side-kick in tow who has more or less latched onto her and now seems to be 'part of the package'. The side-kick never asks if she can watch the lesson, she just sits herself down. Once, when another livery was about to start a lesson on her youngster, the side-kick said, 'oh I've been looking forward to watching this!'
My friend invited me to watch one of her lessons, and I sat with the side-kick, who proceeded to not only critique my friend's riding, but also the riding of some of the other pupils the trainer had taught recently. And not in a constructive way either! I was quite shocked.
Having an audience in my lessons has never bothered me, however my friend is having real trouble with her horse at the moment, and the last thing she needs is Little Miss Schadenfreude sitting in the corner lapping it all up to relay to everyone else later.
She's not sure whether she should say something - she doesn't want to come across as all diva-ish and possibly fall out with her trainer (who clearly sees some value in this relationship). I think it is unprofessional, but wondered on others' thoughts.