maya2008
Well-Known Member
I had a Welsh B once who could not, if her life depended on it, stand still without being anxious in a ‘competition’ setting. I went out weekly, replicated it all at home, spent hour upon hour upon hour desensitising her to everything I could - and yet still she spooked, was tense, hated to stand still away from home. She’d had a decent foalhood, been backed by a pro (which went really wrong due to the above anxiety), made it to a ridden pony with me and spent two years learning not to rear every time she was asked to stand (full vet check included just in case). I tried every discipline under the sun that I was familiar with - but though she tried, none of them were really for her.
Then I sold her to a lady who wanted to do mounted games on her, and she found her niche. Reared like the Lloyds stallion while waiting to start, every time, but LOVED her work, was very successful and her new owner didn’t mind the rearing. Best thing ever was going to watch her, seeing her absolute joy in her new job, her bond with her owner and her total happiness. Based on this thread, she was apparently unhappy and should have been shot - because she reared at the start of each game. She shone with happiness though, clearly loved what she was doing. Those few minutes of anxiety were definitely not ruining her life as a whole.
Then I sold her to a lady who wanted to do mounted games on her, and she found her niche. Reared like the Lloyds stallion while waiting to start, every time, but LOVED her work, was very successful and her new owner didn’t mind the rearing. Best thing ever was going to watch her, seeing her absolute joy in her new job, her bond with her owner and her total happiness. Based on this thread, she was apparently unhappy and should have been shot - because she reared at the start of each game. She shone with happiness though, clearly loved what she was doing. Those few minutes of anxiety were definitely not ruining her life as a whole.