Leaving a job on bad terms?

[Firefly9410]

One thing you can do right now is to move your pony to another yard.

Well last week she decided that I gave her an ‘evil face’ while I was stood at the stable waiting to say something to her (I was actually going to try a bit of banter!!!) and attacked me out of nowhere before J could even say anything. ‘WHAT??? WHAT DO YOU WANT??? SAY WHAT YOU’RE GOING TO SAY??? F*** IT! F*** OFF!!!’ Then ignored me for rest of evening and started an argument when I confronted her about her behaviour. She always tries to turn it around and act like I’m the one with the problem or I’m mental for thinking her behaviour is an issue. She even tried this when I asked her to stop making nasty comments about the way I look after my own pony! She had made several snotty comments suggesting that what I was doing was wrong/I was putting my pony’s welfare at risk/I was stupid and then refused to acknowledge that it was none of her business and she shouldn’t have said anything. She’s very judgemental and attacked a livery out of nowhere after eavesdropping on his conversation and made out to the boss that he was making nasty comments about the yard. So difficult!

 

[Beamish]

Welcome Beamish! Looking forward to more wisdom from yo in the future!

Why thank you No pearls of wisdom from me on the horse front I'm afraid, but dealing with toxic individuals - yes I have some experience of that.

OP: Whatever happens, it is most important to guard your own well-being and if that means moving on then so be it. It may not feel like it now, but you will learn from this experience if you safeguard yourself now.

 

[SatansLittleHelper]

She's lucky I'm not on that yard as I would make it my personal mission to drive her Bat shit crazy with my enthusiasm for her. Think Tigger on crack cocaine ?? Pour on the syrup, always greet her with a big smile, make her a coffee.
Or....
I've found that people like her literally have no idea how to cope without some kind of response.....I have been known to drive the odd person slightly over the edge by remaining very, very calm while they rant and then raising an eye brow while asking if they feel better ??

Might not solve a thing but it will amuse you and you can't exactly get into trouble for being nice ??