Leaving a yard- another thread sorry!

elliefiz

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Horse has been on a yard for the past few months. Originally horse was on full livery but I found the services were below par and was doing alot of the work myself whilst paying out alot of money. So moved to assisted DIY and I tried to do as many jobs as possible myself. However with winter fast approaching I realised this isnt sustainable- I work full time in a 10 hour a day job and am often expected to take clients out in the evening. The horse needs to be on full livery ideally so I started to look around for other yards. Other stuff has also happened which spurred me on- things that I would find unprofessional and at times cruel but have been told by others not to interfere as because its a DIY yard its none of my business and the YO wouldnt appreciate me getting involved.
I have made no secret of the fact I was looking for somewhere new- I didnt think it needed to be a secret- my intention was to give sufficient notice if i did find somewhere suitable. Its not that I have been speaking to everyone about it but I do not know the area all that well and was asking the girls on the yard if they knew of other yards due to needing a different type of service. I subsequently got a text from the YO telling me that she knew I was looking at other yards and I had 10 days to leave. Slightly unreasonable I would think but it spurred me into finding a new yard which I have found with the help of a fabulous HHO'er. (thank you!)
Now horse can move at any time as there is a space for him at the new yard and I have transport. I have a week left til he had to be out by- so my question is what do i do? I would prefer to get him out asap, I am persona non grata at the moment at the yard and feel v uncomfortable, its a b*tchy yard at the best of times and at the moment its all directed at me! I pay livery weekly and have no contract of any form, written or verbal Would it be ok if I packed my stuff and had horse gone by the weekend? Obviously will pay whatever I owe. Also do I text YO and tell her today or tell her on the day I leave? I dont feel she has been particularly business like about the whole thing so dont feel like I should be either.
 
I dont have any experience of livery yards as I rent a field so it is only me there but just wanted to wish you all the luck with this...how awful for you and what a hateful YO to be so confrontational and rude!!

If it were me I would go at the weekend to pastures new (excuse the pun) and let her know you are gone once you are on your merry way. I guess technically as long as you don't owe her anything and there is no contract, there is precious little she can do about it anyway.

If she wanted to start being unprofessional, then you have finished it for her - two wrongs may not make a right but they make a jolly good wrong :)
 
I would get all your equipment out of there in case word sperads and a few things walk and set up at the new yard ten move the horse. Whatever you pay to cover anything outstanding do it by cheque or bank transfer so you have a record of it and enjoy the new yard.
 
I agree with other posts. Just go at the weekend if you can. As long as you don't owe anything to YO, then I don't see there's any problem with that. Horses are far too much of an investment, time and money, so you have to enjoy it every day. Doesn't sound like you will enjoy it much til you get out of current yard. Enjoy the new place!
 
Check all your tack and rugs etc before you go including any clippers etc as when I gave notice as I'd moved 100 or so miles away it was on a friendly basis with YO but everyone assumed I'd already gone and left my stuff to pick up later and they treated it like fair game - used my clippers, missing rugs even nicked my first aid kit which was mega cheeky:mad: YO was fuming and bawled them out but stuff was gone by then so I just cut my losses.
 
She's told you to go by a certain date so I'd go whenever you're ready and not pay anymore than the time you're there. She's terminated any contract asking you to leave. Move your stuff straight away and your horse asap. Good luck, hope it all goes well for you. X
 
Pack your stuff and leave, YO has made it quite clear they dont want you and you have found a nice new yard. Dont tell any one the date your planning on being gone by just go as others have said if people know your going then they can be funny about it.
 
Thank you all I will do as you advise and move horse and stuff asap. I am worried that horse wont be treated correctly so its best he is out of there. My OH is annoyed- the rules of the yard is that you paint your stable, storage and the surrounding areas once a year. I have only been there since July but was told my stable had to be painted as it hadnt been done by the previous resident. OH spent a day painting a few weeks ago and a considerable amount of money on supplies and now YO has a lovely stable for her next client. OH is not very impressed as you can imagine!
 
I agree. If she gave you ten days notice (presumably a few days ago) then go - she has not honoured the notice period, so she shouldn't expect you to either. I would always leave a month's notice usually, but not in this case.

Why can't people be fair to each other!
 
Honey08- I agree i also would give notice for the required period as I think its basic manners. I had always intended to leave on good terms. Like I said I discussed with other people on the yard that I needed to move at some point as needed full livery. I didnt say anything negative. I dont see how any conversation I had like this necessitated a text which i found quite rude. But no doubt what I said was twisted and relayed back to YO in a different way. Anyway like you said why cant people just be nice- unfortunately in the horse world there seems to be lots of nice people but a frightening number of cranks aswell! One day I'l have a yard of my own and the only crank there will be me! ;-)
 
Texting is what immature teenagers do when they're in a strop!

She should have called you or met in person to discuss things. She doesn't sound very professional, nor acting in a way to conduct good business.

I'd just pack and go ASAP if I were you.
 
10 days bit random.... I wouldn't bother letting her know, maybe she's thinking you won't find anywhere with such short notice.
Just turn up and take what's yours and off you go.
 
Do one, take your stuff and horse and go! Why are so many YO's slightly unhinged? Its a business, but this important fact seems to elude most of them!
 
I agree with everyone else, she told you to leave within 10 days (assuming you quoted the text precisely), so I do just that. Go at the weekend, no need to give her prior warning IMO. Pay for livery up until the day you leave and no more.

Good luck with the move and enjoy the new yard :)
 
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