Cedars
Well-Known Member
Sorry to post this, I'm in a mess tonight and I didn't know where else to post that people might understand
I have two beautiful Labradors who are my absolute pride and joy. One is nearly 3 and one is still under a year. I love them to pieces. We've had three during our relationship and I have absolutely loved having them as pups and molding them into ace adult dogs and they're just awesome. Really awesome.
I've split up with my partner, and he is keeping the dogs. It is 100% the right decision for them as he has the space and the land to give them everything they deserve. Hopefully I'll still see them lots and I am planning to spend time with them really frequently...
...which doesn't explain why I'm such a mess. I am so upset :'( they're my boys, my babies and I can't bear that I won't be there every day for snuggles and to squish them! I can't stand that I'm going to miss so much of the pup growing up, I've done all the hard work but he's now at that age where he's turning into a 'proper dog' and I won't be around for it. I'm so worried they'll forget all about me and they won't be pleased to see me when I visit, or they will just want to stay with their dad and not come with me. I'm scared they won't remember who I am whereas ATM they won't leave my side.
I know I can still take them for walks etc but I won't ever get sofa time again, they won't be able to sneak into bed again for cuddles, they won't be there when I'm scared or when I need company
I'm moving on Monday so this is my penultimate night with them. Any words of wisdom would be appreciated I am not worried or upset about anything else about moving on, that's all really exciting, but leaving my boys behind feels totally horrid
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I have two beautiful Labradors who are my absolute pride and joy. One is nearly 3 and one is still under a year. I love them to pieces. We've had three during our relationship and I have absolutely loved having them as pups and molding them into ace adult dogs and they're just awesome. Really awesome.
I've split up with my partner, and he is keeping the dogs. It is 100% the right decision for them as he has the space and the land to give them everything they deserve. Hopefully I'll still see them lots and I am planning to spend time with them really frequently...
...which doesn't explain why I'm such a mess. I am so upset :'( they're my boys, my babies and I can't bear that I won't be there every day for snuggles and to squish them! I can't stand that I'm going to miss so much of the pup growing up, I've done all the hard work but he's now at that age where he's turning into a 'proper dog' and I won't be around for it. I'm so worried they'll forget all about me and they won't be pleased to see me when I visit, or they will just want to stay with their dad and not come with me. I'm scared they won't remember who I am whereas ATM they won't leave my side.
I know I can still take them for walks etc but I won't ever get sofa time again, they won't be able to sneak into bed again for cuddles, they won't be there when I'm scared or when I need company
I'm moving on Monday so this is my penultimate night with them. Any words of wisdom would be appreciated I am not worried or upset about anything else about moving on, that's all really exciting, but leaving my boys behind feels totally horrid
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