MrsMozart
Just passing through...
That's not what we're saying, it's not just about hard work and dedication, if it was there would be a lot more Olympic gold medallists amongst us. It's about relevant hard work, a careful management system (as Tarrsteps often points out 'it takes a village') and a whole heap of other stuff - and yes, you're right, probably a good old dollop of luck in there as well.
What it isn't, is sitting dreaming about it, hoping it'll all work out, and then getting despondent when (surprise surprise) it doesn't happen.
And just to repeat the old quote (can't remember who said it off hand) - "The harder I work, the luckier I get"
This ^^
It's about doing it all and not aweeping and awailing when things go wrong; or, at least, having a weep and a wail and then cracking on for the next time . If someone doesn't have it in them to keep giving it a go (no detriment, that's just how they are), then stop doing it.
I speak as someone who knows it all only two well! The short story, for me, is in six and a half years-ish: two horses, huge vets bills, the two horses put to sleep; a broken back, a bleed on the brain, a cracked elbow, a broken wrist (these last four were me); a hubby close to throwing in the towel because he kept seeing me crying/hurt/broken/broken hearted; the £££ I'd spent on buying the horses. All to get me around Hickstead. That was my dream, not four unaffiliated dressage tests. Now so much older in all ways, I have a horse from the market away being backed by one of the best guys around, and y'know what, I'll just be over the moon if the horse and I get to grow old together. Acknowledge, accept, adapt, move on.