JillA
Well-Known Member
See, you all did better than me - I didn't even notice!
Also, I’m confused the OP was Belalilly but now Buzzyizzy is talking as if she is the OP? Did something change halfway through that I have missed?
Haha yep. Some people have 3/4/5 and have been known to have conversations with themselves.
I'm the same as you though and barely remember what day it is lol
See, you all did better than me - I didn't even notice!
I have conversations with myself in RL - is that wrong?
See, you all did better than me - I didn't even notice!
This, I also didn't notice a thing
And very much this. Absolutely not the wrong thing to do
Neither did I. Oops, yes it was to keep it under the radar, blooming website changed me back!! Maybe no one else will notice
My concern now is that she will try to withhold some of my stuff once shes rumbled Im going. I intend to do another early call tomorrow as well as a late one tonight in the hope I can remove more stuff.
Well if she holds onto your stuff because you’re leaving then that is theft surely?!
My concern now is that she will try to withhold some of my stuff once she’s rumbled I’m going. I intend to do another early call tomorrow as well as a late one tonight in the hope I can remove more stuff.
I will need to pay her for my time there plus the hay. Id like to give her the cheque as I am leaving, as any time before that I think shes gonna go mental when she doesnt get her full month, hence the withhold my stuff concern. Surely if no contract has been signed, then I only pay her for the time? Especially as Ive been clearing my field of her horses droppings each day. Im blowed if Im paying her a penny more than I have to. Also, as shes cancelled turnout, with all the extra expense that goes with it, I must be ok.That's theft.
You haven't signed a contract, and in any case she's broken the original terms, as far as you've stated you are up to date on payments so you owe nothing.
(PS I totally didn't notice either! )
I cant afford to pay twice.at what frequency were had to agreed to pay rent? Weekly? Monthly? Legally you have to give a period notice of the time amount you pay. So if you pay weekly you need to give her another months rent, if weekly, just a week. However she has broken the agreement by withholding services and field clearance etc. Its whether you just want an easy life really (I know I would just for ease)
Neither did I. Oops, yes it was to keep it under the radar, blooming website changed me back!! Maybe no one else will notice
FGS, OP, just get your stuff and the horse and get out of there. The YO broke the contract, so just pay her for the time you have been there and the hay, as you leave, or when you have got everything out, whichever is the latter. You are never likely to want to go back, so 'burning bridges' isn't a consideration and I imagine that most people in the area already know what she is like, so won't take any notice at all if she goes round bad-mouthing you.
I must admit that I don't know what all the fuss is about, you must have told the last place your horses were at that you were leaving.
Perhaps the YO was amazed at the amount of 'stuff' that she was expected to store in addition to providing livery?
Perhaps the YO was amazed at the amount of 'stuff' that she was expected to store in addition to providing livery?
Perhaps the YO was amazed at the amount of 'stuff' that she was expected to store in addition to providing livery?
I will on all counts.Good luck for tomorrow, please give us an update.
I’d pay till the end of the month, and explain thats more than reasonable considering the services agreed were not supplied. Make sure you block all numbers, Facebook etc. Don’t just wait to see what happens, block and move on.