IWantAShetland
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Hi everyone, I have a dilemma and it would be good to hear a few horsey perspectives on the situation (my family arnt horsey, they just don't understand the ways of the horsey world ?)
I have a horse, shes 12 and ive owned her about 8 years (well call her P). Shes been on loan, to someone who adores her for about 4 years. Just before P went on loan I had a change in circumstances which meant I was unable to care for her so I was paying some one to look after her, it turned out they weren't doing anything and when I was able to finally go see P, she was quite thin and hadn't had the farrier out (despite me paying for feed and the farier). Her current loaner is an acquaintance who at the time was looking for a horse like P was before she was abandoned by the self employed groom I had been paying and said they were willing to spend a few weeks getting her back to health.
For three years the loan worked out well for everyone involved, though every now and again Ps loaner would consider sending her back, before changing their mind, though this wasnt an issue as I was in a position to take her back at the drop of a hat.
Last year her loaner had a change in circumstances which meant I was expecting her back, but her loaner has found a sharer meaning they are able to keep her. Over the last year Ps behavioral has deteriorated significantly, shes rude and bolshy on the ground and is bad to hack alone now.
A combination of Ill health, family circumstance, time and finances mean as of September I will be in no position to take P back again if her loaner cant have her and my situation is unlikely to change anytime soon.
This leaves me with the dilemma of what to do with P. I've suggested her loaner could buy her (at a massively reduced price, less that half her market value even before prices went crazy), but they dont want to do that.
They cant guarantee that they will be able to continue loaning her indeffinatley either. So my only option feels like to take her back whilst I can and sell her ASAP, but this feels a little mean when her loaner has invested a lot of their time and effort and clearly adores her.
Any other suggestions very much welcome!
I have a horse, shes 12 and ive owned her about 8 years (well call her P). Shes been on loan, to someone who adores her for about 4 years. Just before P went on loan I had a change in circumstances which meant I was unable to care for her so I was paying some one to look after her, it turned out they weren't doing anything and when I was able to finally go see P, she was quite thin and hadn't had the farrier out (despite me paying for feed and the farier). Her current loaner is an acquaintance who at the time was looking for a horse like P was before she was abandoned by the self employed groom I had been paying and said they were willing to spend a few weeks getting her back to health.
For three years the loan worked out well for everyone involved, though every now and again Ps loaner would consider sending her back, before changing their mind, though this wasnt an issue as I was in a position to take her back at the drop of a hat.
Last year her loaner had a change in circumstances which meant I was expecting her back, but her loaner has found a sharer meaning they are able to keep her. Over the last year Ps behavioral has deteriorated significantly, shes rude and bolshy on the ground and is bad to hack alone now.
A combination of Ill health, family circumstance, time and finances mean as of September I will be in no position to take P back again if her loaner cant have her and my situation is unlikely to change anytime soon.
This leaves me with the dilemma of what to do with P. I've suggested her loaner could buy her (at a massively reduced price, less that half her market value even before prices went crazy), but they dont want to do that.
They cant guarantee that they will be able to continue loaning her indeffinatley either. So my only option feels like to take her back whilst I can and sell her ASAP, but this feels a little mean when her loaner has invested a lot of their time and effort and clearly adores her.
Any other suggestions very much welcome!