Foxy girl
Well-Known Member
Long story cut short - a series of disasters, one broken hip and a very nasty bolting incident have pretty much shattered my confidence. I bought a 'plod' having lost my cob in February and 5 months on I think I'm going to have to admit defeat and hang up my riding boots. The new pony (14.1hh gypsy cob) hasn't done anything wrong other than just test the boundaries a bit - nothing a firm kick on wouldn't sort out - but my default is to get off. I spend all my time on board feeling terrified and I'm just not sure it's worth it - for a hobby I'm supposed to enjoy!
We have two ponies for the children and I love messing around with them, walking with the kids and getting their friends round to ride. Maybe I should just accept that at 38 yrs old my riding days are over, and playing with ponies is where it's at.
I know I could try and throw money at the problem but doubt whether any amount could bring back my confidence and I'm not sure I'm committed enough to follow it through.
Anyone else been in the same boat?
We have two ponies for the children and I love messing around with them, walking with the kids and getting their friends round to ride. Maybe I should just accept that at 38 yrs old my riding days are over, and playing with ponies is where it's at.
I know I could try and throw money at the problem but doubt whether any amount could bring back my confidence and I'm not sure I'm committed enough to follow it through.
Anyone else been in the same boat?