Syrah
Well-Known Member
The decision has been made, I'm moving yards
It's a combination of things, but the deciding factor happened yesterday. I was turning out my mare and she was being a little (although at 17hh not so little) bugger. I was also only chucking her out for a couple of hours as hoping to clip later that day (another story). A couple of other liveries came with me and suggesting I chuck her into their paddock as theirs were not going to go out until after mine was back in AND their paddock is closer than mine, plus I wouldn't have the demon herd leader to deal with therefore not being charged and bullied by herd leader when bringing mine in.
So I did. YO wasn't around to ask and I had to shoot off for an hour afterwards.
I got a message left that YO and her hubby had gone ballistic at the two other liveries so I hotfooted it back as quick as I could.
Everyone including the YO was sat in the 'sun' area when I got there so I braved it, went out and just got an absolutely filthy look off YO.
A bit later hubby arrived and we brought horsey in. YO was passing us and I struck a conversation with her. I couldn't believe what I was met with. I was holding my 20 month old daughter and she just laid into me, swearing and the tone of voice was disgusting even though I apologise TWICE. I got told to p**s off
It's the straw that broke the camels back. So today, I contacted two yards that I already know of and have friends/family on and have decided on THE yard.
Molly is only a baby, rising 4, so what would you do to settle when moved?
And also how would you give your notice to current yard? In writing or just verbal (it's not stated in the contract, just 2 weeks notice)?
Also kick me up the posterior to get a bit of backbone telling current YO that I'm off
Alot of requests there
It's a combination of things, but the deciding factor happened yesterday. I was turning out my mare and she was being a little (although at 17hh not so little) bugger. I was also only chucking her out for a couple of hours as hoping to clip later that day (another story). A couple of other liveries came with me and suggesting I chuck her into their paddock as theirs were not going to go out until after mine was back in AND their paddock is closer than mine, plus I wouldn't have the demon herd leader to deal with therefore not being charged and bullied by herd leader when bringing mine in.
So I did. YO wasn't around to ask and I had to shoot off for an hour afterwards.
I got a message left that YO and her hubby had gone ballistic at the two other liveries so I hotfooted it back as quick as I could.
Everyone including the YO was sat in the 'sun' area when I got there so I braved it, went out and just got an absolutely filthy look off YO.
A bit later hubby arrived and we brought horsey in. YO was passing us and I struck a conversation with her. I couldn't believe what I was met with. I was holding my 20 month old daughter and she just laid into me, swearing and the tone of voice was disgusting even though I apologise TWICE. I got told to p**s off
It's the straw that broke the camels back. So today, I contacted two yards that I already know of and have friends/family on and have decided on THE yard.
Molly is only a baby, rising 4, so what would you do to settle when moved?
And also how would you give your notice to current yard? In writing or just verbal (it's not stated in the contract, just 2 weeks notice)?
Also kick me up the posterior to get a bit of backbone telling current YO that I'm off
Alot of requests there