Shutterbug
Well-Known Member
Quick scenario for you:
I'm on a DIY yard with my 2 horses - have been there for 6 months, trouble free. YO does not run it as a registered business - its all cash in hand - no contract and at no point was a notice period to leave ever mentioned.
So, fast forward 6 months I have decided to move the horses as 2 stables came up at yard round the corner from my house - like within walking distance - only 2 other horses on yard, a married couple who I have known for years, no school but fab hacking and RI a short hack away so I can use her school and cheaper to boot - pure DIY with plenty of storage, acreage for 4 horses and laid back YO who leaves liveries to get on with it. I have no problem on my current yard, this move is purely to suit me.
I plan on moving them end of this week so last night went to tell my YO and she absolutely lost it with me - she first of all told me to get the horses off the yard that night - to which I calmly asked her how she thought I was going to that (I have no transport) - then she said the horses wouldn't be leaving until I paid the months livery - gates would be locked so I couldn't leave - I politely told her she had no legal right to do that. The she marched over to my two fellow liveries who are also friends and dragged them into it asking them to mediate (wtf??). I politely and calmly pointed out to her that I had signed no contract and she had not told me about a months notice period so I was not paying one but she ranted on about unreliable people and how she was fed up being let down yadda yadda yadda - it was all very uncomfortable and quite frankly embarrassing. SO in the end to prevent her from having a heart attack right there I offered to meet her half way and give her 2 weeks livery in lieu of notice and I'm moving the horses tomorrow. I was not expecting her reaction - I have never left a yard on bad terms with a YO but I'm actually pretty mad this morning now - and Im regretting telling her I would give her anything at all.
Apparently she did the same to a previous livery, cause she kept bringing her up in the conversation but the story she tells is completely different to the story the livery tells.
Are my actions fair do you think? I haven't paid her anything yet and I'm half tempted to just leave and tell her to stuff off - that might just be cause I'm really mad thought
I'm on a DIY yard with my 2 horses - have been there for 6 months, trouble free. YO does not run it as a registered business - its all cash in hand - no contract and at no point was a notice period to leave ever mentioned.
So, fast forward 6 months I have decided to move the horses as 2 stables came up at yard round the corner from my house - like within walking distance - only 2 other horses on yard, a married couple who I have known for years, no school but fab hacking and RI a short hack away so I can use her school and cheaper to boot - pure DIY with plenty of storage, acreage for 4 horses and laid back YO who leaves liveries to get on with it. I have no problem on my current yard, this move is purely to suit me.
I plan on moving them end of this week so last night went to tell my YO and she absolutely lost it with me - she first of all told me to get the horses off the yard that night - to which I calmly asked her how she thought I was going to that (I have no transport) - then she said the horses wouldn't be leaving until I paid the months livery - gates would be locked so I couldn't leave - I politely told her she had no legal right to do that. The she marched over to my two fellow liveries who are also friends and dragged them into it asking them to mediate (wtf??). I politely and calmly pointed out to her that I had signed no contract and she had not told me about a months notice period so I was not paying one but she ranted on about unreliable people and how she was fed up being let down yadda yadda yadda - it was all very uncomfortable and quite frankly embarrassing. SO in the end to prevent her from having a heart attack right there I offered to meet her half way and give her 2 weeks livery in lieu of notice and I'm moving the horses tomorrow. I was not expecting her reaction - I have never left a yard on bad terms with a YO but I'm actually pretty mad this morning now - and Im regretting telling her I would give her anything at all.
Apparently she did the same to a previous livery, cause she kept bringing her up in the conversation but the story she tells is completely different to the story the livery tells.
Are my actions fair do you think? I haven't paid her anything yet and I'm half tempted to just leave and tell her to stuff off - that might just be cause I'm really mad thought