Ample Prosecco
Still wittering on
Yes I feel so lucky that I get to have him as a regular trainer.

Yes, i also don't understand the handler feeding treats while a rider gets up for the first timeIt also all fits in so well with the Ross Jacobs stuff I am reading. It's not about moving their body but engaging their mind. Compliance with the body while the brain is worried about other 'stuff' is not the goal. Ross and Joe both teach that the route to connection/harmony is by ensuring the horses is mentally completely with you.
I was also talking to him about different approaches to backing - I have been getting a lot of advice on when and how! From get on in stable so there is less space to run off, buck; lean over and get led around so they can't see you above them; get on on the yard so they are worried about the concrete and so won't explode. All of that probably works fine. But within this approach the focus is always on the horse's mind being with you. So getting on on concrete might stop them exploding but only because they are worried about slipping. Not because they are 'with' you. Getting on so they can't see you means they don't really undertsand what is happening etc.
I am not criticising those approaches at all. I know plenty of horses who were backed like that and they are doing fine. But those strategies aren't consistent with this way of working. I am keen to learn a way of training as much as just getting the job done, which can be achieved in many, many different ways.
I'm a long way from expert but have backed and ridden away a number of different types: from cobby ponies to very sharp sport horses (all my own or for us as family) as has my OH. It is ALWAYS about the horse's mental comfort, relaxation and trust first, though obviously the horse should be physically ready. Ime, which is limited to the above, if you are questioning if the horse or you are ready, then you are probably not. It should feel like another step, not a huge deal. You should feel like you know what to expect under normal circs and how you might cope with things going sideways. Lots of tools in the box! For us, it takes as long as it takes and we all need to be open to help too. It is a huge privilege to back any horse, to take it's trust to ride it and ask stuff of them - we should take nothing for granted really but I increasingly wonder if our sports horse culture normalizes and underplays the very basic notion of us taking that trust. It's like we expect horses bred for sport to understand those things because of our engineering their existence somehow...I'm not aiming that at @Ample Prosecco of course but more generally - it's something I am really interested in and have been thinking about a lot lately!Yes, i also don't understand the handler feeding treats while a rider gets up for the first time
Why would you want the horse's focus anywhere else but on the rider?!
I imagine most people would say that trust, partnership and good preparation are important. But what does that mean in practice? Holding an ideal in mind is great but it's the skill in reading horses and the timing and feel that takes so many years to acquire, even after deciding you want to focus on that. Is a behvaiour worry, distraction or over-stepping? Is the horse relaxed or shut down? Does the horse understand the question? Are you noticing and rewarding every try? The more I learn the more I realise how much communication I am missing or misinterpreting!
You are so right. And it’s a skill in its own right to know where ‘your’ experience limit is and how tolerant or forgiving in any mistakes a particular horse may be. Young horses fascinate me.
Surely it is about timing. My horse likes treats. I give them to him out hacking sometimes when he is anxious. Turning his head and eating a treat distracts him and calms him, and give him something else to think about.Yes, i also don't understand the handler feeding treats while a rider gets up for the first time
Why would you want the horse's focus anywhere else but on the rider?!
Surely it is about timing. My horse likes treats. I give them to him out hacking sometimes when he is anxious. Turning his head and eating a treat distracts him and calms him, and give him something else to think about.
You wouldnt give a treat whilst rider mounts. But once rider mounted and horse it thinking about the rider up there, quietly offering a treat to chew doesnt seem a bad idea.
I imagine most people would say that trust, partnership and good preparation are important. But what does that mean in practice? Holding an ideal in mind is great but it's the skill in reading horses and the timing and feel that takes so many years to acquire, even after deciding you want to focus on that. Is a behvaiour worry, distraction or over-stepping? Is the horse relaxed or shut down? Does the horse understand the question? Are you noticing and rewarding every try? The more I learn the more I realise how much communication I am missing or misinterpreting!
This is very interesting to me, I tried a bit of R+ and I will admit pretty complete ineptitude but I found with D a mix of if I made the reward less exciting (boring chaff) then she got bored of the repetition but it I made it tasty then she got completely distracted by the treat itself and quite stressed. She's very polite and doesn't mug but she'd run through a repertoire of behaviours to try and get the treat. I put it down to being a nativeShe is beautiful.
I guess the earlier discussion on this thread about +R training suggests that if you are really determined, you can learn how to train with treats and not have the horse get over-excited. But I think you need to be very, very committed to clicker training as an ideology to do that because it's seems like much more work than using pressure-release.
As I said, it works with Hermosa because she just doesn't get into a state about treats. I use maybe 60% -R and 40% +R with her. The hard thing with her about +R is that the 'shaping' can be very repetitive (maybe that's my ineptitude...I don't know) and she just gets bored. The treat isn't interesting enough to make doing kind of the same thing over and over again engaging enough.
Myka has been with me almost 8 weeks. It feels longer!
Just re-read my post about handtreats. YO gave all liveries a goodie bag of pony treats so I decided to just reward Myka a couple of times for a good try. OMG never again. We went from attentive and focused to WHERE IS MY TREAT!!!! Mugging me whenever I got anywhere in reach. But the goodie bag was still pretty full so I thought ok fine, I will teach her not to mug - always lesson one in any treat training. I started reinforcing moving her head away (as opposed to moving it closer to mug me) intending to shape up to her being attentive, but not mugging. She was just a quivering ball of anticipation, and though I succeeded with the anti-mugging lesson, I got zero meaningful work from her the rest of the session. So my sense that treats are a distraction was pretty solidly reinforced. For her anyway. So I have binned the treats and won't ever treat her again while we are working.
Today I just ran through some groundwork that we have done a few times but not recently. And I am pleased with how responsive she is. These lessons seem to stick without regular drilling. The first exercise was getting her moving up into trot and back down to walk just with my diaphragm. Then some sideways stuff. Then leading again, matching with my feet.
Apologies for the straw in her tail. She was pulled from the field and worked in the arena without returning to her stable because the horse she shares with would freak if I took her out of sight.
She's a good girl.
Young horses, eh?
It’s easy to be wise after the event, but did you have the stirrups down as you first asked her move with the saddle on? If so, maybe the saddle and the stirrups together were a bit much after her time off.
It's hard to say without being there (even when you're there, it can be hard to say!), but it sounds like maybe she trigger stacked. She was fine with the other horse in the arena, ok with other horse plus saddle, but other horse plus saddle, plus movement was too much. It is also possible that something outside of the arena (sight, sound, smell) put her over the edge.
Also, how many times has she had the saddle on and do you normally put it on by yourself or do you have help? Has anything changed in the manner or moment of putting it on?
I'm sure you've already planned to take a step back for the next session, but also remember to cut yourself some slack, you're both learning to know each other and where your limits are in a given situation.