Ample Prosecco
Still wittering on
Yes I feel so lucky that I get to have him as a regular trainer.
Yes, i also don't understand the handler feeding treats while a rider gets up for the first timeIt also all fits in so well with the Ross Jacobs stuff I am reading. It's not about moving their body but engaging their mind. Compliance with the body while the brain is worried about other 'stuff' is not the goal. Ross and Joe both teach that the route to connection/harmony is by ensuring the horses is mentally completely with you.
I was also talking to him about different approaches to backing - I have been getting a lot of advice on when and how! From get on in stable so there is less space to run off, buck; lean over and get led around so they can't see you above them; get on on the yard so they are worried about the concrete and so won't explode. All of that probably works fine. But within this approach the focus is always on the horse's mind being with you. So getting on on concrete might stop them exploding but only because they are worried about slipping. Not because they are 'with' you. Getting on so they can't see you means they don't really undertsand what is happening etc.
I am not criticising those approaches at all. I know plenty of horses who were backed like that and they are doing fine. But those strategies aren't consistent with this way of working. I am keen to learn a way of training as much as just getting the job done, which can be achieved in many, many different ways.