amandap
Well-Known Member
Yes great post. Tinypony is talking a lot of sense in my eyes.Isn't it always going to be an issue though that one person's view of unduly coercing a horse will be absolutely fine for someone else?
I wince at the way some people deal with horses in fairly simple situations, such as maybe twitching just to clip, or walloping and shouting when they think a horse is being "rude". However, others will think I am too coercive because I will use a rope halter, and will flick a bit of my horse with the end of my rope (I use the word flick advisedly there, I don't mean a "phase 4" contact). Even people who use methods that are thought to really lack coercion, like clicker trainers, will disagree. For some anything other than working at liberty is coercion, whereas others are fine to have a halter or headcollar and rope and thefore restrict and guide the horse's options a bit.
So, whichever trainer you say you like, someone else will leap in and go off on one saying they disagree and that that trainer is coercive or maybe even abusive.
I think all we can do is set our own limits and make our personal decision about what sits right with us. Then work with trainers who enhance that. Also be prepared to agree to disagree, even with our trainers. I disagree with a couple of things that my main trainer is OK with, but that doesn't mean I dismiss everything he does. Babies and bathwater come to mind.